Dating a Scorpio Man

Dating a Scorpio Man | California Psychics

Scorpio Man Traits

The Scorpio man is rather famous (or infamous) for his temper, but it’s hardly a fair or accurate picture of him. Yes, the Scorpio man can be intense in his emotions, but who wouldn’t be when ruled by Mars, the planet of fire and impatience, and Pluto, the planet of determination and power. Sure, such influences can make him a bit touchy at times, but the truth is that the Scorpio man is a brilliant person, brimming with passion. He feels everything keenly but does his best to hold it all in and keep himself in check. For the most part, he’s a very secretive person who’s happiest when he’s doing things his way rather than following someone else’s way. It won’t matter at all who approves or disapproves of his course of action; the Scorpio man spends so much time reigning himself in that he has to find some way to show off his free spirit. So, what makes this tightly controlled, secret rebel of a sign an absolute catch? The fact of the matter is, if you can get him to open up to you, the Scorpio man is one of the most loyal, devoted, and caring partners you could ever hope to meet.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man

The Scorpio man is probably the one who invented the mysterious, brooding guy in the corner act, so it’s not surprising if you find him attractive. The question is: how do you get him interested in you? With a Scorpio man, putting yourself out there a little is your best bet. He likes to know about people, specifically what they enjoy and what they like to explore. He’d rather hear about your weird hobby than your day job any day (unless your day job is a weird hobby, then it’s the best of both worlds.) And don’t be afraid to brag a little if you have something to be proud of, because the Scorpio man likes hardworking, ambitious people. He holds himself to very high standards and prefers to be around people who do the same for themselves. Don’t try to sell him a fairy story though, because he’s very good at reading people, and he’ll know if you’re just talking nonsense. Make no mistake, if a Scorpio man’s eyes light up when he looks at you, it’s because he’s seen the light in your eyes while you’re talking, and he likes what he sees and hears.

How to Date a Scorpio Man

Scorpio is not a romantic sign, so don’t expect dates with your Scorpio man to be that way. He doesn’t really go in for candlelit dinners or bouquets of roses. The Scorpio man considers the pursuit of his and your interests and hobbies to be a far more fun thing to do anyway, so be prepared for some adventurous and weird dates. Sometimes he’ll take you somewhere that aligns with his interests, and other times he’ll plan an outing that clicks perfectly with that topic that sent you on an internet rabbit hole earlier in the week. Just be prepared for surprises.

How to Communicate with a Scorpio Man

Scorpios are not fond of games and manipulation, so whether you’re trying to convey information or emotions to a Scorpio man, be as straightforward as possible. You’ll get a much better response out of him that way. In fact, it’s usually only when he’s being toyed with or made fun of that the Scorpio man’s famed temper tends to rise to the surface, an experience that neither of you will enjoy. Another important thing to remember when trying to communicate with a Scorpio man is that you need to listen. He’s a good listener, and he does prefer to listen rather than talk most of the time, but he’ll shut down or dismiss you if he sees that you don’t afford him the same consideration when he talks as he does you. The Scorpio man doesn’t let many people into his world, so be respectful if he decides to open up to you. He also has a very sarcastic sense of humor, and if you can keep up with him in it, he’ll be delighted, so don’t be afraid to let your darker side out a little around him.

Turn Ons of a Scorpio Man

The Scorpio man likes to spoil those he cares about but it comes with a caveat; try to reciprocate now and then. The Scorpio man is extremely generous, but there’s only so much he can give before he feels like he’s being taken advantage of. You don’t have to be loud about it, in fact, calling out that you’re returning a favor for something he did for you may have the absolute opposite effect. Knowing that you notice when he tries to take care of you though, and that you will do the same in return means the world to him. He also finds mystery extremely alluring, so don’t be afraid to leave him wanting more, questioning when he’s going to get a chance to put more pieces together in a puzzle. That puzzle could be you, or it could be an experience you put together for him, because he’s an excellent problem solver. Either way, he finds it ridiculously sexy when a dash of mystery is added to any equation.

Turn Offs of a Scorpio Man

Nothing will shut a Scorpio man down faster than calling his honesty, integrity, or his sincerity into question. It’s true, he’s not the most loquacious or open with his emotions, but when he does share, he means it. The Scorpio man doesn’t like to play games with other people’s hearts, and he guards his own with a fierceness that would make his sign’s namesake proud, so he’s not going to waste time on people who don’t believe him or make fun of him when he tries to open up. He also finds complacency utterly unattractive. He’s an ambitious, curious man, and he has no desire to spend time around people who don’t wonder about the world or who are happy with the status quo. Complacency and stagnation are akin to a death sentence for him. And if he senses that you are of a jealous or controlling nature, he will run in the opposite direction. He controls himself enough on a day to day basis, and he’s uninterested in anyone else trying to take control of him too. It’s just another form of stagnation for him.

Scorpio Man Compatibility

Are you currently matched with a Scorpio man? Find out how compatible the two of you are with the California Psychics Zodiac Sign Compatibility Tool. And for more in-depth information on your personalities as a couple, your good and bad sides, and how to make it work, read your Compatibility blog on the California Psychics’ website.

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