5 Tips to Make Amends With Departed Loved Ones

5 Tips to Make Amends With Departed Loved Ones

It’s Never too Late to Make Amends

Messing up and then apologizing for your words or action is a part of life. You can easily assuage your guilt when you reach out to someone and express your sincere regret for what you’ve said or done to them. But what do you do when the person you need to apologize to is no longer living? Can you still make amends with them?

Do you want to reach out to a departed loved one? It’s easy to do when you read with a deceased loved ones psychic!

If someone passes on without you getting the chance to make amends, the sting of regret and guilt can be intense. You have the desire to make things right and it eats away at you. However, just because you’re occupying two different realms, that doesn’t mean you can’t reach out to them and make amends. Here’s how.

1. Know that Forgiveness Goes Both Ways
Sometimes, the most important part of making amends is realizing you need to forgive yourself just as much as you need to ask someone else for forgiveness. Often, we beat ourselves up over small transgressions—saying the wrong thing, potentially offending someone, not being grateful enough—and we hold onto unnecessary shame and regret. Instead, try to let go of whatever negative feelings you’re harboring toward yourself for the wrongs you’ve committed. You can’t expect someone else to forgive you if you can’t forgive yourself.

2. Connect With Them Through Meditation
Meditation is a great way to make amends. Why? Because when you meditate you are relaxed and more open to receiving messages and insights from Spirit and other beings—including your departed loved ones. As you meditate, let your thoughts flow toward your departed loved one. Imagine what you would say if you two were sharing space. What do you think they would say back to you? Meditation will also help you connect with your inner self and your inner self may have some fresh insights about your conflict with your departed loved one that you may have never considered before. This can be a very healing way to make amends and find closure.

3. Write Them a Letter
If you prefer to write your feelings down, you can make amends by sending your departed loved one a letter. In your letter, say everything you’ve ever wanted to say to them but make sure you end the letter on a positive note. That positive not could be forgiveness, an apology or the determination to break your ties so you can move on. Writing your feelings down is also a way of lessening the power they’ve had over you all this time. Once you’re finished, you can burn the letter, tear it up and throw the pieces into a body of water or you can bury it. Another option would be to read the letter at the gravesite. The choice is yours.

4. Try Automatic Writing
Let’s say you prefer an actual response from your departed loved one. You can do that with the help of an automatic writing psychic. Automatic writing is a channeling technique where the channeler (psychic) gets into a meditative state in order to connect with the person who has crossed over. This being’s words flow through the psychic and onto paper. Try it if you’re looking to make amends. Get the other person’s point of view, an apology, or the forgiveness you’ve been looking for. An automatic writing psychic reading is a more concrete form of closure.

5. Visit a Psychic Medium
Similar to automatic writing psychics, psychic mediums act as conduits between the living and those who have passed on. However, psychic mediums are the liaisons between the living and the dead. Think of them as psychic mediators who go between you and the person you wish to make amends with. Say your peace and get an immediate response—in their own words. This is a liberating and life-changing experience and you’ll certainly feel as if your departed loved one is in the room with you.


Death is not the end of your strong bonds with your loved ones. A psychic medium can connect you to those who have crossed over. During a psychic medium reading, you can share messages, get closure, and so much more.

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