Friends, social media. and other connections are emphasized with an active eleventh house during November. A friend might become a lover, or a long-time lover or friend might be confused about their standing with you. Maybe communications weren’t as clear as you thought, and that line between friend and lover may be a bit blurred, as Mercury goes retrograde in that house.
At the same time, your inner self requires real reflection with Venus and Jupiter in your twelfth house of Sagittarius. If you ignore this, its voice will be loud and clear during November. It’s important that you sort through what’s being revealed about yourself and your needs. Share this with your partner.
If your lover is new and exciting, see if they’re willing to be open about your mutual issues. That’s important with any lover. Your personal needs and past traumas (everyone has them) are freed when you reveal and accept them mutually. What do you have to lose, ultimately?