Gael from Kent, United Kingdom asks:
I’m currently working in the UK for a career; however, my children, friends and family are in South Africa with my heart. I desperately would like to return there in March permanently. The problems I’m having is seeing any opportunity to earn the same amount of money in South Africa and which avenue would create enough money to meet all my commitments and live abundantly?
Psychic Anya Dawn ext. 9179 Responds:
You created your oasis from tapping into the universal supply of competency. Only living this fantastic lifestyle without the ones you love is unbearable. Wanting more for your family and friends, you think going back home will make a difference. At an impasse, you’re wondering how you can wear the new you in your old surroundings.
Essentially, your nature requires you to stand on your own two feet. Although you have found the route to make life satisfying, your relatives stayed behind. They think your success is due to fortune, or being overly focused on work. Whereas you know you did not want to live without growth. Showing your true self made your world forever change.
The turning point is not about going back to South Africa and finding a way to recreate your financial achievements. It is about finding a way to gently allow the people in your earlier life to grow when they want. Your children are not following your particular ambitions and goals. Your flesh and blood will not attempt to undertake what you cannot imagine living without.
Knowing fulfillment makes it harder for you to look at your perception of waste. That’s why you can’t relocate back to South Africa – how can you give up a truly thriving new life in the UK? You aren’t afraid to remember your old life, but people from your past don’t want to be reminded of the permanently changed you. Finding oneself is a fate worse than death for everyone around you.
But it’s OK. Like yourself, there are many people that have found a new level and want relationships with someone like you. Keep in mind that all of those you love can choose to change their life, too. Remember you did not cause the separation by moving. Division occurs by intentions set in each and every heart, not by the distance alone.
Unlike the fable, having found the way to turn whatever you wish into gold, does not mean you will lose all that you love. By accepting where everyone is you will find a way to increase the closeness between all of you. Throughout our life we go forward, but that does not mean we are leaving something behind. Our life stays on track if we just allow it to happen.
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