Amber from Louisville says,
I’m a Sagittarius. I’ve been single for a very long time, mainly because of a painful heartbreak from a Scorpio that I could never heal completely, and from also not quite meeting the right guy. I’m in my mid 30s now, and I worry that it won’t happen for me, that I may never have the kids and family I see all my friends enjoying. It isn’t that I’m unattractive or unsuccessful, I just have a fear of getting my heart broken the way it was before. I think that next year will be a turning point, since I will have the financial freedom to do something different in my life. I’m wondering what you see for me, and when I may find that love I am looking for.
Fear is a very powerful emotion, as well as a powerful energetic force. While fear does serve as a personal mechanism for protection, if not kept in check it can keep us from moving forward. In other words, don’t let your fears limit you.
It is true that you haven’t yet met the right guy, and you are still healing from the damage that your Scorpio left behind. It’s not that you can’t heal completely from the heartbreak of that relationship, but you’re a bit afraid to let the memories and the pain go. Don’t let that experience continue to define you.
Try not to compare your life with those of your friends. All this does is reinforce your fears, and make you feel a bit pressured. Focus on yourself, on your dreams and aspirations, and everything will fall into place. While your upcoming financial freedoms will relieve some stress and burden, it is your personal growth that will allow you to open yourself to love and trust once again.
Marriage and family are in your future, but they aren’t necessarily going to come about quite the way you’ve always envisioned. Life doesn’t always follow our mental script. The things we try to resist are often what we actually need the most.
You may not believe me now, but by this time next year, you will be with your future husband. Your Mister Right will come to you via an online dating venue, and even though he has a daughter from his previous marriage, the two of you will have children of your own.
Like I said, life doesn’t always follow our idealistic plans, but that doesn’t mean that things don’t ultimately work out for the best. There’s a level of safety and happiness in front you that you couldn’t have had with your Scorpio love, so embrace your future without fear or regret.