It’s Okay to Get Mad and Get What You Want
Anna from Arlington asks:
Hi Red, I would love it if you could take some time and write how to stay positive after years of waiting for the change to come while being penny-less, jobless and on the brink of another eviction. I am writing to you because I feel less and less hope and my negativity is growing, instead of shrinking (well, anger and fury and jealousy and exhaustion). All that is a result of waiting and waiting and waiting for things to turn around. I keep reading a lot of clever and wise advice on how to attract abundance, love, peace and how to add to my skills and experience. More often, I just get furious after reading another confession of a person who managed to overcome the darkness. I get furious, because I thought I was working hard on that. Despite my hopes being so high, and despite reassurances of really great psychics that it was just around the corner… I still am waiting for all this change to come. In the meantime, I am penny-less, jobless and again on the brink of another eviction. Your suggestions and advice would be highly appreciated.
Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:
The world—energetically speaking—is in a really funky place right now, and it’s affecting all of us. Some of us are just getting kicked in harder in the teeth than others. Many people, including you, seem to be getting kicked repeatedly. I am seeing so many “so close” moments around you over the past eight months that it’s not even funny. It’s as if many opportunities for change—people, jobs, things—that looked like they were yours, should have been yours (from a psychic perspective), just fell into the void at the last second. I’ve gotta say, Anna, it’s pretty messed up. To make matters worse, it doesn’t look like you are the cause of this or are screwing up… anymore. You used to, and there was some karmic debt there, but you have changed and the debt has been paid. While there are still moments when you will feel and experience the residual energy from your past, the residuals really don’t look like they have any true power to hold you back or keep you down, because everything I’ve got is screaming that you are on the brink of serious and positive changes.
All that you have learned and implemented is working for you. Like I said, you’ve changed. You also look like you have a much clearer understanding of the Universal Law, and the impact of application and manifestation, including the Laws of Attraction. But here’s something that the books, the videos and the gurus won’t tell you: It’s okay to get pissed. It’s just not okay to stay that way. Everyone teaches and preaches the light-and-fluffy, and that’s good! But so very few want to put their necks out there when it comes to the darker side of the negative. Most everything you come across will tell you to “let go” of the negative stuff, which you absolutely should do, and is an essential ingredient in creating change and implementing attraction and manifestation, but no one really wants to give guidance as to how. So, you’ve really taken anti-negativity lessons to heart, but you’ve been suppressing the negative, which is much different from releasing that energy. So I say: Get pissed. Embrace that all anger, pain, confusion, jealousy, pity—all of it—and USE IT. You can harness all of that bad juju and focus it into a constructive, flaming arrow of positive changes. There’s power in negativity; a lot of power, actually. But you, me, all of us—we have a choice on what we do with that power. We can transmute it into a good and useful tool for our well-being and the well-being of others, or we can let it remain negative; bleeding out of us subconsciously, and impacting our lives and the lives of others.
We are all in a great period of change. No one and nothing on this planet is immune. All that energetic funkiness going on is gaining strength every day from those who feed it—continually bleeding out that negative vibe instead of using that energy to make changes, to be better, to better the world in which we live.
It’s tough to stay positive during hard times, and you’re going to have your ups and downs throughout the process. Understand that that’s okay. You’re allowed. But when you are at your worst, understand that that is an opportunity to see, taste, feel and know your own negativity—and take that energy and use it’s strength to create some good. Send out some angry resumes, knowing that that job should be yours, and knowing that even though you sent it with a release of your negativity, that energy will transmute into something positive and constructive before it reaches anyone else’s hands or eyes. By your will and conscious effort, all that will be left of your ickiness is the power of positive manifestation. Clean out your closets with pity and rage, focusing that energy into items you can donate or give away—with the knowledge and intention that what you are releasing will transmute into blessings to whomever receives the items. Clean up littered streets and parks with aggression, focusing your negativity into the trash, knowing that your negativity—just like the trash—will be changed through the process. Bottles, plastics and papers can be recycled into fresh and new items, just as your negativity can be released and recycled into something positive, beneficial and rewarding.
Staying positive isn’t just a state of mind, it’s a state of being. One that we all have to work at, because it’s all part of a natural cycle. In short, the less negativity you (suppress) hold onto, the more positive you actually become. And, as you know, you attract what you project.
Releasing negativity matters. How you release it matters more.
I hope this helps you.
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