‘Til Death Do You Part… Really?

Should You Stay With Them?

I have many clients that call me because they are involved in extramarital affairs and they are not quite sure how they got there. I can feel that they are apprehensive about discussing it with me. I can often sense the feeling of guilt. Rest assured, I explain quickly that there is no judgment on the other end of the line. I’m all about faithfulness, but sometimes the universe puts us in situations that force us to make tough decisions. Sometimes these situations are frowned upon because of rules created by society. Often these rules, created by our human existence, actually go against the plan we created for our spiritual lessons. Although the rules of society are important in preventing utter chaos they can often stifle or prevent people from the true pursuit of happiness. Many of the rules I call into question revolve around relationships. Please keep in mind that the rules I intend to cover are a personal choice. If your gut says its wrong… that is your truth. If your gut says its right… then that is your truth! Choose your own interpretation and pave your own path to fulfillment.

Spiritual and Societal rules for interpretation: My Truth

1. No sex out of wedlock. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Not experiencing a physical connection with some one before committing to a lifetime relationship feels a little like buying shoes without knowing your size. You can feel a great love for someone but if it doesn’t work in the bedroom you are in for a great deal of disappointment.

2. Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is a union between two people (souls) who wish to share their lives together… period! For me, enough said.

3. Everyone has only one (1) soulmate. I just cannot accept this fact. I truly believe we are born with a soul group. Each relationship has a purpose. Some are for a reason, some are for a season and some are for a lifetime. It really depends on where you are on your spiritual journey . You may experience several high level people within your soul group in this lifetime or you may experience just one. But please don’t believe that “the one that got away” was your one and only chance at happiness in this lifetime.

4. Marriage is Till Death Do You Part. This one is, in my opinion, the most up for interpretation. This is the one that can tie people to unhappiness and/or create unfathomable guilt. Death is the relative word here. It seems to always be interpreted as a physical death, but I believe that the death of the heart and soul of a relationship can often be more painful than actual physical death. If the relationship has run its course or served its purpose, and one or both of the people involved are suffering an emotional death, your duty is done. Many people choose to stay because they don’t wish to hurt the other. Staying in a relationship because you pity your spouse or lover is not healthy for either party. It’s actually more compassionate to let them go so that they have a chance at true happiness as well.

In conclusion you need to make your own rules and find your own truths. Remember, California Psychics is a safe zone. We offer no judgments, just awesome predictions and experienced spiritual guidance.

4 thoughts on “‘Til Death Do You Part… Really?

  1. arise

    Sorry, my phone came up with “serna”, I was trying to correct it to “seems” when somehow it got posted.

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  2. arise

    “Lynn”: Wow, you have got yourself into a fine mess! My best advice is, take a two-week vacation from all of it. Go far enough away that you won’t be tempted to see her. Stay with friends who will keep you busy, and tell her you won’t take her calls while you’re away. You can tell her it’s not forever, just two weeks to clear your head.

    Just about the time you’re ready to return, the fog will lift and you’ll know exactly what to do. Then come home and do it! (PS: I am not a psychic and this is not a prediction, just something that serna to work every time if followed exactly as described.)

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  3. lynn

    I’ve been in an affair with my soul mate for over 12 years. Her marriage will be 19 years in .01.01.2013. He knew about me 6 weeks after we met again. AND>>>>>>>>> Before we made love. He did nothing. The marriage was sexless after the 1st year. He says it’s an “open” marriage. She is going through hell, espeically when leaving Sunday morning to go back to her “other” life. I DON’T THINK WE GO TO HELL AFTER WE DIE MORE BEING WITH ANOTHER MARRIED PERSON. I THINK WE LIVE HELL OUT HERE. IN THIS LIFE. Me, alone all week, her sleeping in her own bed with her 3 dogs in her own bedroom. He’s not interested in sex. We talk. After his brother shot himself. At 12, I found my father with a bullet in his head. It sounds like he thinks I’m, “hired help” in a “open marriage”. He said not one word when he found out about me!!! How can you expect a person not to have sex in a sexless marriage, if to leave him…. At 50 she’ll lose everything she’s worked all her life for? I’m not a saint either. He makes a lot more money than me. He’s a father to her, who took her to the hospital when she was raped. As he stayed home that night so she and her friends could go out for her brithday. He’s brainwashed her ad I don’t know what to do, but maybe go. The man is bilimic, if they are in a fight, he will deliberately vomit on a new couch, her new expensive bed linens or carpets. Or, just on the kitchen table or sink ad then leave. He’s damaged, She’s damaged and I’m damaged. We dated in our mid 20’s before my mother suffered with terminal cancer for three years. I stopped going out, stayed at home with my mom usin some of the morphine I (then) could give her. I married my mom;s favorite girl. married June 19, mom pasted away Dec. 28. It was the only time in 2-3 years my mom left the hospital. WHEN I SAW MY SOUL MATE AGAIN, I WAS DIVORCED. AND SHE HAD JUST GONE BACK TO HIM AFTER A TRAIL SEPERATION. (the rape). a FOOTBALL PLAYER FOR THE UNIVERSITY, I HAD TO FLEE AFTER ALMOST KILLING HIM AFTER THE TRIAL. Ten years later I thought it was God’s “Second chance”!
    Do I have abaNDOMRNT ISSUES? iS SHE FILLED WITH WITH GREED. i FEEL ASHAAMED AND SAD THAT THE HUSBAND CAN NOT FEEL ENOUGH LOVE TO EVEN CARE WHERE HIS WIFE IS ALL WEEKEND. YET, IF IT COMES CLOSE TO HER FILING…. HE GIVES HER CASH, CARS…..$67,000 SIDING FOR THE HOUSE. And people dam us because we are “cheating”. WHO IS THE THE ONE CHEATING? i SORRY MOM…… But, is it GOD?

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  4. KB

    #1 is truly just a shallow way of loving someone. If you love someone truly, everything feels right no matter what.

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