Should You Stay With Them?
I have many clients that call me because they are involved in extramarital affairs and they are not quite sure how they got there. I can feel that they are apprehensive about discussing it with me. I can often sense the feeling of guilt. Rest assured, I explain quickly that there is no judgment on the other end of the line. I’m all about faithfulness, but sometimes the universe puts us in situations that force us to make tough decisions. Sometimes these situations are frowned upon because of rules created by society. Often these rules, created by our human existence, actually go against the plan we created for our spiritual lessons. Although the rules of society are important in preventing utter chaos they can often stifle or prevent people from the true pursuit of happiness. Many of the rules I call into question revolve around relationships. Please keep in mind that the rules I intend to cover are a personal choice. If your gut says its wrong… that is your truth. If your gut says its right… then that is your truth! Choose your own interpretation and pave your own path to fulfillment.
Spiritual and Societal rules for interpretation: My Truth
1. No sex out of wedlock. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Not experiencing a physical connection with some one before committing to a lifetime relationship feels a little like buying shoes without knowing your size. You can feel a great love for someone but if it doesn’t work in the bedroom you are in for a great deal of disappointment.
2. Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is a union between two people (souls) who wish to share their lives together… period! For me, enough said.
3. Everyone has only one (1) soulmate. I just cannot accept this fact. I truly believe we are born with a soul group. Each relationship has a purpose. Some are for a reason, some are for a season and some are for a lifetime. It really depends on where you are on your spiritual journey . You may experience several high level people within your soul group in this lifetime or you may experience just one. But please don’t believe that “the one that got away” was your one and only chance at happiness in this lifetime.
4. Marriage is Till Death Do You Part. This one is, in my opinion, the most up for interpretation. This is the one that can tie people to unhappiness and/or create unfathomable guilt. Death is the relative word here. It seems to always be interpreted as a physical death, but I believe that the death of the heart and soul of a relationship can often be more painful than actual physical death. If the relationship has run its course or served its purpose, and one or both of the people involved are suffering an emotional death, your duty is done. Many people choose to stay because they don’t wish to hurt the other. Staying in a relationship because you pity your spouse or lover is not healthy for either party. It’s actually more compassionate to let them go so that they have a chance at true happiness as well.
In conclusion you need to make your own rules and find your own truths. Remember, California Psychics is a safe zone. We offer no judgments, just awesome predictions and experienced spiritual guidance.