It’s a topic that has always fascinated me, and the answers are actually not what you would expect. Although every man will have his little personal checklist that he looks for in a woman, today I want to share the essential characteristics that every single man needs to witness in his partner before he’ll even consider getting down on one knee.
Relationships are founded on the idea of two people supporting each other through thick and thin. That’s why men are actually looking for a woman they think will be able to support them through their rough patches.
Let me explain. Men are not as tough as you think. Just like you, they want to know that they can have someone in their life who will cheer them on and pick them up when they feel their confidence waning. Relationships are all about mutual support.
This is why men love women who expect a lot from them. If a man sees that his girlfriend has high standards and expects him to live up to them, he knows he’s got someone for life. This is because he knows that he’s going to have to pick himself back up if he wants to impress her. He wants to be challenged.
2. She’ll Indulge His Hobbies, Not Ignore Them
It’s easy to make the mistake of thinking that it’s enough simply to leave your man to his own hobbies and give him space to do them without you. While it’s true that men do enjoy their “guy time” now and then, they would actually rather you take an interest and get involved in what he likes doing, whether it’s playing football, going to gigs, or watching foreign films.
You don’t have to be 100% involved in his hobbies, but it’s important to show a willingness to support him and enjoy it with him. If he plays sports, he’ll love the idea of you coming to watch him play now and then. If, on the other hand, you simply ignore his hobbies and leave him to get on with them, he’ll feel like you’re not really involved in the things that are important to him.
3. Takes Initiative to Surprise
Most men associate marriage with routine and eventually boredom. So it naturally follows that the only kind of women they see as marriage material are those that are going to offer endless variety. The type of woman who will take initiative to plan a romantic trip, or surprise him in the bedroom with sexy underwear, or do something special for his birthday.
As soon as a man gets the signs that a woman will keep surprises up her sleeve, he’ll never want to let her go.
4. Initiates in the Bedroom
In most relationships, it’s accepted that men want sex more frequently than women.
But this should never imply that it must be left to the man to initiate sex. See, sexual confidence is extremely important to a man. As such, women who make us feel sexually confident get a massive tick in the marriage department.
How do you make a man feel sexy? By ripping his clothes off and telling him you can’t resist him. Or whispering to him over dinner how you can’t wait to get him home. These things show a man that desire goes both ways, that it’s not just him trying to initiate sex all the time. Any woman who can bring out her sexual side and show a man how much he turns her on physically is definitely a keeper!
5. Back Massage
This is as simple as it sounds. There isn’t a man alive who can resist his woman giving him a back massage once in a while.
Men love a woman who can help them relax. This doesn’t have to be every night, but just on the odd occasion when you think he really needs it. Showing this little hint of thoughtfulness is exactly what makes a man think “This is the kind of woman you marry”.
It’s all about care when men choose the women they marry. They want to know (a) How much she cares about him, and (b) Whether she is thoughtful enough to show it. Small gestures now and then like a back massage with all the luxurious oils and scented candles shows him that he’s not going to have to worry about where that care comes from.
OK, Free Gift Time…
I just gave you a valuable sneak peak at men. And because I’ve been helping women “get the guy” for some time now, I can promise just that advice alone is going to help some of you find the man you dream of.
But NOT all of you.
Some of you will need more insider information to snag the guy of your dreams. And that’s where the free gift comes from
Let me back up a bit.
Many of you don’t know me. But my name is Matthew Hussey, and I used to coach guys on how to get women.
And yes. That’s the exact opposite of what I do now. And it was the exact opposite of all my instincts.
You see, growing up I had a lot of girls in my family close to my age. And they all seemed to come home with stories of guys they were interested in… but who did not respect them.
So while they fell head over heels, they didn’t get the guy. These girls were often my cousins and loved ones, so I really felt for them.
As I coached guys on how to open up and attract women… I couldn’t help but feel I should be doing this for women. I wanted to help women, like my cousins, who needed to meet the man of their dreams but couldn’t seem to catch him and keep him.
After coaching thousands of guys and discovering EXACTLY what makes them tick, I finally realized I had what I needed to help women out.
I understood men’s psychology—even more so than just by being a man. By helping vulnerable guys with their relationship problems, I was introduced to all the feelings men have when pursuing women.
And what is a guy to do with all this knowledge when he’s sympathetic to women who want to meet the man of their dreams? The only honest answer I can come up with is to SHARE it.