What Men Really Want
The pages of women’s magazines like to tell guys how we like our sex. However, there are nine tips, in particular, that women really need to know, and this advice is coming straight from the men who want you to have these sex tips. Get more personalized advice, contact a psychic today!
1. Response Over Beauty
Women believe that one of their primary tools to making a man happy in bed is her beauty. However, what really starts the engine for most guys is her response and interest level. A woman who responds to a man’s touch, is creative in bed, and resists the urge to count ceiling sprinkles, is a woman who we don’t have to bother wondering what she’s thinking; she’s already made that quite clear!
2. Passive Resistance
Statistics suggest that 20 percent of guys prefer a woman to take the lead when it comes to dating and sex. What these statistics don’t show is that nearly 100 percent of guys like women who occasionally take the reins. Whoever created the rumor that the caveman is supposed to drag the woman back to his cave by the hair, left out the part where she persuades him to climb a sap-filled pine tree, before enticing him to stroke her shiny locks with his sticky fingers.
3. Guided Fingers
Despite what a man wants you to believe; he has little idea what he’s doing in bed. Men basically wing it whenever they are with a new partner. However, what he does find sexy is when a woman knows exactly what she wants, and is not afraid to take his hand and show him what that is. Men find pull and tell a lot more erotic, than the grunt and grasp game. This is when a guy grabs and caresses whatever he can, gauging his success by either her grunts of pleasure or pain.
4. Hurt So Good
When men touch a woman gently, they are role-playing the guys from all romance movies. Women assume this tender touch means to handle them in the same careful fashion. However, men are more aroused when they are man-handled a bit. A little scratch here, a bite there… just remember, no teeth on his most sensitive man parts!
5. What He Thinks When You Turn Him Down For Sex After an Argument
Some men believe that their girlfriends/wives deliberately start a fight to avoid having sex with them. It never really crosses his mind that she might have a reasonable gripe with him, because he is too focused on its repercussion. Men are much more sensible animals when we are allowed to feel loved and appreciated. Withholding sex only creates a wedge that will make negotiations (and compromise) all the more difficult.
6. Love vs. Viagra
Women assume that it is their fault when a man can’t get his juices flowing down below. They think it means he isn’t as attracted to her or interested as he once was. The truth is, the more feelings of love and respect involved with sex, the more pressure a man feels, and therefore, the more likely he is to come up short (pun intended).
“Define your sensuality and sexuality according to what makes you happy.” – Agnes ext. 5400
7. Guys Like a Woman Who Knows His Anatomy
The giggly virgin may seem attractive for the first five minutes of sex, but once a guy figures out she has no idea what feels good to him; her innocence looses its appeal. Men appreciate a woman who knows his basic anatomy enough to create fireworks, just by juggling his bits in all the right directions.
8. Leave More Than Just Your Hat On
Tom Jones and Joe Cocker sang a tune begging women to leave their hat on during sex. While this is a good start, a lot of guys appreciate having other accessories left on as well. Think of your bra, stockings, and other lingerie as your hood scoop, spoiler, and decals. In other words, most men appreciate a few extra accessories on their hot rod, and a few frilly accoutrements during love making can be just as tantalizing!
9. Lady Behavior
I think Hollywood has made this point quite clear, but it never hurts to drive the point home. Men love women for who you are; make no mistake about that. However, we do appreciate our fantasies that women are only brushing their teeth every time you slip behind a bathroom door. And when it comes to sex, this is how this fantasy should stay. Please keep any discussions about your period or last bowel-movement until after sex, when we are already asleep.
“Attracting sex is simple. The hard part is when someone believes that sex and love are the same or that one will naturally lead to the other.” – Reed ext. 5105
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