Are you distant, do you feel insecure, no longer loved, do you second guess your partner’s actions or motives, or have you lost trust? Maybe you’ve grown apart. Trust your intuition as to what’s happening in your relationship.
Trust Your Inner Relationship Coach
Molly from Athens, Georgia asks:
How do you know things are ending when you’re not seeing it?
You know it in your gut and you know by observing your behavior and his behavior. Finally, you know it based on how you feel. Are you distant, do you feel insecure, no longer loved, do you second guess your partner’s actions or motives, or have you lost trust? Have you become merely roommates, do you no longer share your lives, but instead spend more and more time alone? All of these are indicators that things are fizzling out. And while you can often fix a relationship that may have become stale, it requires work and commitment on both sides. The best indicator that things are done is when neither party is any longer interested and committed to make the necessary changes that would be required to safe the relationship.
Honesty is a great policy, so if you’re suspecting that something is up, simply ask your partner how they feel. The fact that you asked this question makes me wonder if you haven’t already realized that maybe things aren’t so great anymore. Also, ask people who really know you. An outsider is often able to see a situation for what it truly is, given that they do not have an emotional attachment to it. So ask a good friend what they are seeing.
“The only person you can change is yourself. Learn to accept others as they are or move on.” – Rivers ext. 5273
The one thing I cannot recommend is keeping your eyes firmly shut and looking the other way. That approach always ends up in disappointment and heartache. Keep your chin up and simply ask yourself, as well as the one you are with what is going on.
“Change is always to be welcomed rather than feared because it leads to the best relationship choices and the greatest freedom.” – Faith ext. 9608
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