Spirit Just Knows
I am often asked about spirit. Many of the questions I receive are from those who have recently been bereaved. They ask questions like “How do they know?” “Do they watch over me?” and “Why do I not feel them around me?” It is often only after our whole world has been turned upside down that we start to question our own physical existence and the world around us. It is only when physical death touches us that we sit up and take notice. Until this point, we all think we are going to be “here” for ever. I know this was the case for me when I was young because I believed I was immortal.
Something interesting happened in two private readings I carried out recently. As I worked away, each of the ladies were visited by their fathers. As is the norm, I gave as much information as possible about their fathers, including information about their lives, their passings and their reasons for coming through that night. At the end of the evening, I asked the ladies if they would be willing to share some of the details of the readings. It is not a medium’s job to understand any information or messages but simply to deliver what spirit has intended.
Whilst chatting, one lady introduced me to the other saying that they were sisters. I was shocked and I asked them if they had different fathers. They replied that they didn’t. I told them that when I did their readings, I didn’t feel like I was reading the same man. For one woman, the father seemed distant, while for the other woman, he was quite chatty. This was why he came through as two different people to me. The sisters explained that he was like a different man with both of them and they had very different memories of him. They also explained that he had come through that night acting towards them as he had while he was still in this world.
This father had also wanted to bring specific messages to each of his daughters. One daughter could not be with him while he was ill, while the other daughter had nursed him throughout his illness. He wanted to reassure his daughters that he was “healthy” again.
The lesson from spirit here is that the deceased don’t go anywhere. They just exist on another vibration. Although the daughters are still coming to terms with their father’s passing, as a medium I was able to offer some consolation.
I have sat for groups of relatives where spirit has let me know I was dealing with relatives and occasionally spirit brings through the same memories as evidence but also brings through individual memories as evidence for each relative. In the case of these sisters, their Dad wanted to let his daughters know everything was okay and he tailored his messages to suit the relationships he had with each daughter while he was alive. This resulted in each daughter receiving the comfort they needed at the time.
The next time you receive a message from spirit, just remember that spirit puts a lot of work into delivering that message via the medium. Also, don’t forget that spirit might remember an incident slightly different from you. But you don’t have to wait until spirit sends you a message. You may ask your loved ones while they are physically still here how they remember certain things. Is it exactly the same as your version of events or is it different?