It’s been said that we don’t meet our true family at birth, but rather on the road of life. Make no mistake; the most powerfully karmic relationships that we can experience are those with parents and siblings, but that doesn’t mean that they’re necessarily positive relationships. Why does a parent treat one child differently than another, even when the children are twins? It’s because our relationships have their roots in other lifetimes. These connections show up astrologically, and the use of this powerful tool can assist family members in not only understanding family dynamics, but also assisting in the improvement of stressful relationships.
I’m often asked by a client to focus on the issues of their children. I thoroughly enjoy these readings because parents know their children well, and they usually have an accurate birth time. The karmic association between the parent and child is often pronounced, and if the relationship is a stressful one, it is often quite simple to correct. It might help to present an example.
A friend presented the birth data of her daughter, husband and granddaughter. My friend is a very gifted and experienced psychic. Astrologically, her daughter has some of her mother’s gifts, but she came in to this life to work on some more mundane issues, thus she is not as clear a channel as her mother. My focus is on the granddaughter.
The granddaughter is only three years old. The parents are now in a position where they have to leave her with baby sitters. She seems to be experiencing extreme stress when left in the company of strangers, almost to the point of panic. Apparently the little girl does well with other children, even during disputes she plays the diplomat and peacemaker. The problem shows up when left with strange adults. She is a precocious child; very intelligent and already learning to read. This is what I discovered.
The granddaughter is a Crystal Child, a very old soul. She is a natural clairvoyant and a natural telepath. She is also clairaudient. It is safe to assume, even at such a tender age, that she is receiving a tremendous amount of information that she has no ability to handle emotionally. Thus, the child and my friend have a karmic link, not only of blood, but of spiritual support. My friend is in a perfect position to coach her own daughter in order to relieve the emotional stress of the child. No one but an experienced psychic could fulfill this role.
Granted, this is an unusual relationship, yet be assured; there are no coincidences when it comes to individual destinies. Family members are together for a reason. Understanding those reasons through astrological analysis reveals a purpose, followed by an action plan that usually alleviates the stress, once and for all.