He Should Only Love Me, Right?
Sonia Roa from Pune asks:
Why do people get attracted to someone else when your present partner does everything to keep you happy?
Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:
There are many reasons why people find themselves attracted to others, even when they are restricted by the boundaries of an existing relationship. Having a defined relationship and dedicated partner may dictate being exclusive—but being exclusive doesn’t mean that a person ceases to feel or find others attractive.
A person can be completely blissful in a relationship, but even that level of happiness isn’t going to “shut off” the appreciation and resonance that occurs from basic human interactions. Sometimes, attraction occurs due to normal, physiological response—what we like to simplify and call “chemistry.” That chemistry can be physical, caused by the pheromones we all produce, or it can be something a little more esoteric—crossing paths with a past-life love or a member of our soul family. Some attractions are surface, the draw being appearance or status. We all have come across someone, regardless of relationship status, that we find incredibly physically, mentally, or emotional attractive. Sometimes, we aren’t exactly sure what we find so attractive about another, we just know there’s something…
Finding yourself, or finding out that your partner, is attracted to an outside party is fairly common—and quite normal. By nature, we are not monogamous. Monogamy is a choice. Unless we enclose ourselves and/or our partners into a soundproofed, bricked-up box with no windows or ventilation—outside attractions are going to happen.
A person who is truly happy and happy with their partner and relationship can’t be “won” or “lost” because of external attractions. While they may acknowledge an attraction to an outside party, they will typically defend and protect the relationship that they have, because even with the onset of external attraction—there really is nothing to explore.
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