Our true love or a soulmate can come to us at any point in our lives, even when we’re in another relationship or marriage. Should we stay in our relationship or be with the one we love?
Recognize True Love and Protect It!
LD from Atlanta, Georgia asks:
Can a relationship ever really make it? Even though it started incorrectly (example a love affair)?
Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:
Generally speaking, relationships not only have the ability to endure, but they also have the possibility to thrive! So, yes, it is possible to “make it.”
One of the core issues people struggle with these days is “relationship pressure” —if you’re not involved, or haven’t found the right mate by a certain date. This is a pressure we have created for ourselves, and one that often times leads us to make relationship mistakes.
Most of us are in love with the idea of being in love, and rush into or push for that “forever” commitment. Sometimes, both people have enough strength and character to get through the roughest times, and find themselves bound to an appropriate mate. Other times, people recognize that things aren’t quite right and turmoil ensues. Very often, the first person we choose to commit to may not actually be the right person to be committed to.
It really isn’t all that uncommon to be in a relationship when the “right one” comes along. Depending on the individual, some will choose to honor commitment, but others will choose to honor love. Unfortunately, there are also those individuals who are so tormented by confusion and conflict that they honor neither commitment nor love. By the time they figure out that they should have created a little chaos in order to obtain bliss, they may find themselves in a position of continual searching for relationship happiness. Free will may be one of the greatest gifts given to the human race, but it certainly can cause complications.
The relationships that do stand the test of time and endure the ups and downs of life can be seen in part as destiny, but there’s also a lot of hard work involved in order to create that happy outcome, too. Love is not constant. The way we feel love and send love is always shifting and changing. It impacts the individual and their partner. Some couples work with these fluctuations to find and maintain joy, and other couples or individual parties use these fluctuations to change their path. While not every relationship is meant to last forever, some are, and do!
True love may seem fictional because it isn’t the easiest thing to find, but it does exist. Those who are wise enough to recognize what they have, regardless of when or how it came about, will defend and protect their relationship and their loved one until death.
Keep in mind, we humans are the ones who have created the rules and laws of relationships, and often honor those concepts more than our individual Spirit. Some people push aside the laws of Man in favor of the guidance of Spirit. Words and paper cannot guarantee a lasting relationship. However, those who regard love and relationships as more of a spiritual union are the ones who seem to be able to more easily find the right mate, and nurture their relationship from one life into the next.
I hope this answers your questions, and inspires you to keep the faith!
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