Red Responds: Should She Wait to Move In?

Stacy in Satsuma writes:

I have been seeing my boyfriend, Bryan, for seven months. He’s a 26-year-old Gemini and I am a 26-year-old Scorpio. We are planning on moving in together at his house. I have a four- year-old daughter, so she will be moving there too. I feel like this is the right thing to do. My daughter does love him and he loves her. Do you think I should do this now or should I wait longer to move in?

Dear Stacy,

It looks like you are going to be moving in with your man sooner rather than later. While the timing decision is completely up to you, I see you taking this step before the end of summer – most likely late July or August.

This is a huge step, and I don’t blame you for having some reservations. It’s scary. But you seem to have a pretty solid foundation in this relationship, and the dynamic between your daughter and your lover is quite good.

I’m not seeing this transition as a difficult one for your daughter. She seems to just roll with it. While all of you will have to adjust to family life, things look as if they are going to go pretty smoothly.

What you have here is a standing offer to move in. Sure, he would prefer it to happen sooner rather than later, but time is on your side. Ultimately, the best time for you to move in with him is when you are truly comfortable with the plan.

Brightest Blessings,
Ext. 9226

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