Get Back Together!
Breakups are rough, and oftentimes for the best, but if you feel that your relationship deserves another shot, you’ll need a solid game plan for winning back your lover’s heart. Let’s look at a few suggestions sure to put you back in the romantic running!
Give yourself and your partner time to think things over and miss one another. The reunion will be that much sweeter after an absence and you’ll both have a better chance at a fresh start.
Whatever went wrong to cause the split, talk about it. Most breakups come from a lack of communication so speak up!
Say You’re Sorry
It’s hard to work around a wounded ego, but taking responsibility for your role in the breakup is the only way to move forward!
Take the first step towards reconciliation with relationship advice from Psychic Michelle ext. 5396.
Plan an Adventure
A mutual interest or a hobby date will reconnect you two and serve as a powerful reminder of why the two of you fit so well together.
Pour Your Heart Out
Tell your partner how much he or she means to you and why. It’s only through being sincere and vulnerable that a real re-connection can occur.
Give a Gift From the Heart
It’s not the gift, but the thought and expression behind it. Giving your partner something that shows you truly know them, what makes them happy or adds sincere benefit to their life can score major points in romance re-connection.
Get gift advice based on their sun sign during an astrology reading with Psychic Nicolina ext. 5671.
Nothing says “I care” like putting those words into action. Show them your emotional support by paying sincere attention to them and being available whenever they need you.
Something in your relationship wasn’t working and that’s why you broke up in the first place. Figure out what it was, how you contributed to it and work on not doing it again.
The Power of Touch
So much expression comes from body language, so don’t discount it. It’s easy to over think a situation and allow confusion and second-guessing to take over. As long as they are open to it, hold them, touch them and allow physical expression of your feelings to take over where your head may have stalled.
Don’t Play Games
Be open and honest about your thoughts and feelings. If you’re serious about wining them back, you can’t play games.
Don’t be Possessive
Don’t exhibit jealous or controlling behavior! As much as you may miss being close to them, give them the space to truly miss you.
Work on Yourself
Time apart means you get the opportunity to self-reflect and think about how’d you like to improve as a person and as a mate.
The worst thing you can do is isolate yourself and jump in the pity pot. No healing or growth happens there, nor does it put you in an attractive light!
Friendship is the most solid base for any relationship. Reconnect on that level and it will open you both up to the potential of much more the second time around.
“Friendship is the foundation for starting over and for life companions.” – Psychic Reba ext. 5508
Go to Counseling
A professional’s perspective can always be beneficial, and if there are issues to be worked out individually and/or as a couple, this can be the perfect way to do it!