Protect Your Relationship and Allow it to Grow
Psychic Abigail ext. 9570 is a customer favorite at California Psychics and is known for her insights into relationship issues. “I’ve always been an empath, a feeler, and a knower,” she said. In addition to her natural empathic abilities, she also uses her skills in clairvoyance, clairsentience, and claircognition, and relays messages from her spirit guides.
During her recent visit to California Psychics’ offices, she discussed a big problem that prevents her callers from developing the relationship of their dreams. Abigail said, “The real relationship killer is trying to force something before it’s ready.” She explained that women often have an impulse to define what the relationship is and where it’s going too early on. “If people would just be in the now and enjoy the journey they would have the relationship they seek.”
When women try to define the relationship too soon, they risk their partner backing away. Not because he doesn’t want the relationship, but because he hasn’t reached that stage of the process yet. You need to give your partner a chance to grow with you, Abigail explained. “A lot of the time I tell callers that relationships grow in phases. If you start assuming the wrong things you’re not allowing it to flow. Fifty years ago people would marry early and go with the flow of their relationship as it developed. Now we all overanalyze everything.”
Abigail has a solution to avoid harming a newly developing relationship with this overanalysis. She says to know and understand the natural phases of a relationship. “There are growth phases—you don’t necessarily go from point A to B. If you rush it a lot of junk can come up that you’ll need to deal with.” She advises not to rush through the getting-to-know stages with your partner. “It’s like getting a degree; you need to do the work until you pass it.”
Interestingly, Abigail connected gaining greater awareness of growing together with a partner with what’s taking place in the world as we move toward the 2012 ascension. “The world is not ending but changing.” she said. As we move forward, Abigail explained, it behooves us to be in a state of allowing growth, as globally we’re growing toward a higher level of consciousness.