Should You Give Him His Space?
Estrella from Scotch Plains, New Jersey asks:
Can a man need his space to see what he wants after he has been through a bad marriage?
The answer is definitely, YES! As a matter of fact, I’d be very concerned if he didn’t want his space, and instead, jumped straight into another relationship.
Most people need time to reflect and heal after they have been through a divorce. It’s not only normal, but also very healthy.
I’m sure you’ve been through breakups before. I know that whenever I got out of a relationship I needed my space for a while to figure out what went wrong, how I could prevent it from happening again, and what I really want out of a relationship and in life, period. Depending on the length of a relationship, this can take a little while, and it is not something you can force, push or speed up. The fact that he is taking his time to evaluate what he wants and is not immediately willing to jump into another relationship is normal. If he is recently divorced, I can almost guarantee that he doesn’t want to settle down right away again.
“You must first decide that you are worthy of love and that your value to be loved is not determined by someone else but yourself.” – William ext. 5131
It sounds like he is being honest with you and you’ll have to make up your mind regarding waiting for him (i.e., giving him the space he needs) or moving on.
“Real trust takes real time.” – Reed ext. 5105
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