Realizing when someone is taking advantage of you can be difficult. Men don’t respect women who don’t respect themselves. Demand more for yourself.
Should You Consider Getting Back Together With Him?
Carmen from Meriden, Connecticut asks:
I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt he was lying and cheating. He’s back in my life again; he said that he was dating her after we broke up. Well now he’s back, and it turned out she didn’t want him the same way. I’m feeling uneasy and don’t trust him. I’m always wondering if he’s still chasing her, since it’s a challenge now.
Are you serious?! I hate to come across so blunt, but why in the world would you want this guy back in your life?
Let me see if I get this straight! This joker cheats on you and is dishonest. Then he runs off with another chick and when she dumps his butt, comes running back to you, who apparently took him back with open arms? Yikes, girl, this is a guy you shouldn’t spend time and space with! What signals are you sending, my dear? You are telling him that it is OK to treat you like dirt, because you are going to take him back no matter what.
You want my advice? Dump the zero and find a hero! Understand that people don’t change for others and especially not when there are no consequences to their actions. This guy openly admits that you are second choice and yes, if the other one is willing, I guarantee he is going to run back to her in a heartbeat.
“Real trust takes real time.” – Reed ext. 5105
I hate to break it to you, Carmen, but men do not respect women who are doormats; most people do not. And if someone is already a douche bag, behaviors like this, on your part, will only support him more in his douche baggery. The question here is not “if” he is going to chase her (or anyone else for that matter), but when. Time to move on, my dear, because this guy is not worth it! It takes a certain character type who cheats and lies and then has the audacity to come running back, because the one he took off with didn’t want him, and that character type is usually rotten and deserves no effort on your part.
“To attain the love you want, be prepared to be, or work to become, the type of person you want to attract!” – Yemaya ext. 5143
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