How do I know if he loves me? That’s a question that one reader asks and Carmen shares much of her own personal experience which many agree with: honesty with a few exceptions, no secrets, accepts you for who you are and quite a few more bits of wisdom.
Knowing the Signs of Love
How do you know if a man loves you? What are the signs to look for?
I have often pondered this question and over the years, I think I have finally found some answers for it. I will say upfront that this is my personal list, which I have discussed many times with others and they seem to agree with me. Also, this list includes a mix of both the dating phase, as well as the long-term relationships phase.
1. A man who loves me is always honest with me, unless I have a cold, look like Frankenstein and ask him “Am I beautiful?” In those moments it is okay for him to lie.
2. The man who loves me doesn’t keep secrets from me.
3. A man who loves me goes out of his way for me. He doesn’t need to be told, asked or constantly reminded that I do exist and other things don’t always take priority over me.
4. A man who loves me treats me with respect and kindness, even when I have major PMS.
5. A man who loves me has integrity. He keeps his word and knows how important this is to me.
6. When a man loves me, his eyes sparkle when he sees me and he can’t wait to see me again.
7. When a man loves me, he shares things with me he tells me things no one else knows about him.
8. When a man loves me he does the little things that are important to me. For example, my husband gets dinner every night.
9. When a man loves me he accepts me and likes me just the way I am. He doesn’t expect me to drop 10pounds, have long or short hair and dress a certain way. He accepts my little idiosyncrasies and doesn’t ask me to change. On the flip side, I do the same for him!
10. When a man loves me he not only takes my feelings, hopes, dreams and wishes into consideration, but they are a priority to him as well as his own priorities. Most of the time, I am number 1, not number 2, 3 or 10! He knows how to prioritize.
Because after all, the man who loves me puts my happiness, my emotional, mental and physical well-being on a level equal to his own.
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