Are Your Living With a Narcissist?
Everyone can be a little selfish at one time or another in a relationship. After all, we are only human. However, if this behavior is the rule rather than the exception, you could be involved with a narcissist. Here are the warning signs:
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Makes Promises They Won’t Keep
Narcissists make a lot of promises, but they never deliver. They always make excuses for not keeping their promises, and they rarely apologize for letting you down. If something goes wrong, they tend to put the blame on others, including you. Narcissists are great at playing the victim.
They Are Pathological Liars
A narcissist can look you straight in the eye and lie to you. They invent tall tales with themselves at the center of everything. They make themselves the hero. As time goes by, their stories become more outlandish and the story always changes. You’ll hear a story one way today, but a few months from now it will have totally changed because it wasn’t true to begin with.
When it comes to romantic relationships, narcissists lie about what happened to make themselves look good. They want you to think they’re a wonderful catch. They may say that all their exes were extremely attractive, and they’re doing this to intimidate you or make you think they’re doing you a favor by dating you. But there is never any evidence that these previous partners exist. They have no names and there are not photos to back up the story.
They Aren’t Interested in Your Life
No matter what’s going on in your life, it’s of little interest to a narcissist. They have no sympathy or empathy for you, and they are quick to make the conversation about them again. They crave constant attention, which gives them a sense of self-worth. Narcissists are extremely insecure and uncaring. Without your constant attention and praise, they are forced to look at themselves and see who they really are.
They Don’t Have Close Friends
The narcissist doesn’t have close friends—only acquaintances—and that’s because they think they are better than everyone else. They tend to belittle all those who surround then in an attempt to make themselves feel and look superior. They like to discredit people and create falsehoods. They have no sense of guilt or remorse.
They Are Master Manipulators
Narcissists always have an agenda. They are excellent manipulators. If they do things for others, it’s only because they expect something in return. They are control freaks and their first priority is to charm the victim before isolating them. The isolate their victims because they don’t want them interacting with anyone else who associates with them.
Narcissists are excellent actors. They are very good at faking human emotions, like love, caring and empathy. They live in constant fear of being exposed.
They Can’t Handle Criticism
When criticized in any way, shape or form, narcissists fly into a rage. Any criticism they are subjected to will quickly become an attack on you and the attack is psychological. When you are not admiring and adoring the narcissist, you are of no worth to them so they swiftly punish you with their outrageous and sadistic tongue lashings.
Walk Away From the Negativity
If you have a relationship with a narcissist, the best thing to do is to walk away. Turning your back on them prevents them from controlling you and inflicting emotional distress on you. Total detachment is the only resolution.
You can choose to be a victim of these twisted individuals or you can choose to be a survivor. Surround yourself with positive energy and never hesitate to ask the Universe for assistance. When you take the necessary steps to protect yourself and create joy and peace in your life, the Universe will always support you.
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