Go Out on a Limb and Get Your Man!
Calling all independent women of 2012! Long gone are the days of waiting around for that intriguing guy to ask you out. It might well be a challenge for some women to act the aggressor when they see a guy they are interested in, so let’s look at a few simple approaches that can make that first step productive and painless.
How you approach him will create a lasting first impression, so be confident, and be yourself. There’s no use in playing games unless you’re only interested in a one-night stand. Be direct about your interest in him (sometimes men are dense!) and let that charming personality shine!
Invite Him Out to Something Adventurous
If the thought of asking him to a romantic dinner for two makes you catatonic, try for something more casual, perhaps where there will be a group of people enjoying an event together. A party, a picnic, a group bike ride or hike—these are just a few examples of how you can pick him up without the pressure of any first-date intimacy (it’s a pretty safe bet that most guys are up for any type of adventure!)
“Anyone can attract a fun partner by having a fun sense of self.” – Lalita ext. 5408
Give Him Hints
If you want to take a less bold approach, sharpening your flirtation skills is worth the effort. Eye contact, secret smiles, a casual touch on the arm are all subtle suggestions that you are interested in him. If he gives you signs that he reciprocates your interest, then you can rest assured that you have sent him all the signals he needs to feel confident in asking you out.
“Know what you want. Have confidence. Be in the mood to be open and playful and good spirited.” – Lalita ext. 5408
Invite Him to Go for a Drink
Another way to casually invite him out is for drinks. As people go out for drinks all the time, your offhanded mention of having a drink isn’t something formal that might make either of you feel pressured or awkward. Be specific about the day and place so that you’re not left dancing around the details. By the second drink on your “un-date,” you will both be more open and casual about what otherwise might be an ordeal. At this point you can sit back, relax, and watch the fireworks fly!
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