Celia in Williston, Florida writes:
I have dreams about falling down a hill and finding myself in a faraway land with kings and queens. There is always this guy who saves me. He is tall, dark, and handsome and happens to be my ex. I was wondering why I have dreams about him because I haven’t seen him in over five years. Can you tell me what this means?
Dreams of being rescued by your ex would certainly be confusing! He is obviously still in your consciousness. I suspect there’s a quality in him or in your past relationship that you’re craving now. Falling downhill is a clue. Is there some part of your life that you’re unhappy with? Perhaps it’s something that feels beyond your control, and you need some help (from a partner?) in handling it. Being in a faraway land may reveal a sense of being out of your comfort zone, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. You may be developing new skills that feel “foreign” to you now.
Or it could be that your desire for the ultimate relationship (Mr. TD&H) is producing a fear that you’ll only be disappointed when this paragon of manhood arrives, similar to what happened with your ex. The faraway land with kings and queens sounds like a fairy tale, which might mean you have unrealistic expectations concerning a partner. Or perhaps your expectations are too low and you need to reach higher. Getting clear about what you want in a partner will help you manifest a compatible relationship.
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