Understanding Your Purpose
We are born on earth to do only a few things as humans during a lifetime.
- Reciprocate love.
- Help as many people as possible.
- Be accountable to reach our higher level of self so we don’t have to repeat any missed lessons in our next lifetime.
Life Has Its Ups and Downs
Life isn’t always easy. We sometimes need to rely on our friends or family to take the lead or help us make tough decisions. It is spiritually healthy to accept help along the way, but it is not healthy to allow someone to make all the decisions in your life for you. Giving someone complete control of your adult life can lead to disaster!
Sometimes Taking A Break Helps
Sometimes the friends or family that helped you in your time of need may not recognize when you have everything under control again. If this time comes, it’s best to sit them down and thank them. Communication is key. Show your gratitude and let them know that the situation is under control.
Take Control of Your Decisions
Don’t take too long to establish this or you could end up blowing up or resenting the help. When you allow others to control all your choices and decisions, it can lead to a major spiritual disaster for you. It is only a matter of time before you get angry with the person that was helping you. If the friend or family member truly does not know that they are overstepping their boundaries, the lack of communication is your fault. Be accountable for your actions. Speak up.
On the other hand, a controlling person may know exactly what they are doing. Do you lack the confidence to stand up for yourself? Bob Marley said in a song, “Get up, stand up, stand up for your right! Get up stand up, don’t give up the fight!” Play the song as positive mental boost or set it as your ring tone to help you help remember the strong person you are!
Don’t Use People As A Crutch
Lastly, try to recognize when you need help and when you are only doubting yourself. Reaching out and asking for someone’s advice is great! Just do not use them as a crutch or become co-dependent on their advice. Use the advice to help inform your own decisions. Many fear the unknown. Don’t focus on not knowing what the outcome will be; be confident in your decision making. Practice makes perfect. The more you start to rely on yourself, the stronger and more confident you will become.
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