I do not want to be cheated on, you don’t want to be cheated on, no one wants to feel betrayed, and few are dying to dole out betrayal. However, it happens.
Denise is a caller of mine who is constantly finding herself drawn to men outside of her marriage. “I am not willing to let my marriage go, but I keep finding men that intrigue me.” Why does Denise keep cheating? In the spread I laid out for her we discover her Page of Batons is inverted, her Queen of Cups is inverted, her Queen of Coins sits right-side up, and her Empress is inverted. What this loosely means is that her need for security keeps her from leaving her marriage but she reaches outside of the home for primary fulfillment. So, if she loves to sing, she’ll find herself drawn to people who have the same interest. With her cup card inverted there’s a passionate part of her going unmet and she finds herself drawn to the dramatic dynamic this sort of conflict creates. The thing is, she’ll never leave her husband just find herself stuck in this whirlpool.
All criticism aside, what do you think about the root of cheating? What is missing from one relationship that is fulfilled by another, yet secret one?