Kim in Fort Wayne writes:
I believe that I was being guided two years ago to leave a bad relationship and good job in order to move from WI to IN. Since I’ve been here, I’ve had to learn how to be more humble and live for thirteen months with my daughter and family. Talk about rough.
I had a very hard time finding a job, let alone a full-time one. I now live on my own, but I’m not sure how long I’ll be able to stay here without having to get a second job and working non-stop just to have a place to sleep. Or beg my daughter if I can move back in. She is now expecting another child. I would have to give up on going to school because of the jobs.
I am so down and discouraged right now, I’ve been feeling just numb. Please HELP.
I know exactly how you feel, and really do sympathize – it’s so hard to live day to day just treading water, economically. Then, when you add the lack of a really fulfilling personal relationship, well, life is not a bowl of cherries, it’s the pits.
I want to encourage you, though. I see that you have really learned so much during this past time of hardship, and that you will put these lessons to good use in the future, even though that is the furthest thing from your mind right now! I’m sure you were guided to make this move, which – even though you can’t see it – did result in great personal learning.
I do want to ask you, though – have you considered moving back to Wisconsin? I feel that this could be a good direction for you, economically. Once you’re back to a solid financial base, it could be that your personal relationships become more rewarding. I say that because it’s so hard for happy, successful people to be attracted to us when we feel so miserable, and perhaps even desperate. Have you ever noticed how people with many of the same characteristics seem to be drawn to each other? I feel that once you’re back on a more solid money base, your positive qualities would shine.
As for meeting men – I always see that people meet kindred souls in activities that they both enjoy, whether it be volunteer work for a worthwhile cause or a particular hobby. I do realize that you don’t have a lot of spare time right now, but I feel that this would work for you once you’re back to not having to work quite so much.
Please let us know how this works out for you!
God Bless You,
Psychic Tansy ext. 5289