Debbie in Lindenhurst writes:
My boyfriend Glen broke up with me in October after 3 years. We were all over the world together and I was assured by at least 100 psychic readings that he was alone, however I come to find on Facebook his recent pics online showed him with this girl Lisa, that broke us up. What’s up with this?
I’m really sorry to hear of your break-up. That really stinks.
First, let me start out by saying that we psychics aren’t always right. We try to be, but sometimes we get it wrong. I’m telling you that because it’s true, and I also don’t want you to think that I’m answering your question from a perspective of defensiveness — either for myself, my colleagues, or the line.
From what I can tell, Glen was pulling away from you for about 2 months before the break-up. Even though it may be easier to believe that this girl Lisa was the culprit, cause, and reason — she is only a small part of the equation.
It is true that Glen was talking to Lisa, and several other females, while the two of you were together. He’s currently still in touch with most of these women. While some of his conversations and interactions with Lisa and others may have pushed some boundaries, he didn’t actually cross any lines. He was just being his typical, charismatic self. Both before and after the break-up, he was trying to figure out what he was going to do.
Lisa took about a three month chunk of time, (September through November) and used it as an opportunity. But, even though he was talking with her, and sometimes hanging out, he wasn’t doing anything. That’s why you kept being reassured that he was alone.
Glen didn’t break up with you because he wanted to be with someone else. He broke up with you because he felt that your relationship had gone as far as it could romantically, and that he had outgrown you.
I’m very sorry that you were caught off guard by the photos on his Facebook page. Even though a picture is worth 1,000 words, not everything is as it appears. Even though Glen and Lisa are spending time together, their relationship has yet to be defined. Brace yourself to continue seeing them together until the summer months, and then to see another girl at his side.
I’m very sorry.