We always have negativity in our lives. Learning to deal with that and eliminate it is a powerful tool as Red explains.
Remember to Take Care of You During a “Beastly” Time
Robin from Gainesville, Florida asks:
Am I under a curse? I have had difficulties in employment, health and family for the past 12 –14 years. I am now being laid off after literally saving a non-profit from closing its doors. I was not paid for all the time I have worked there and have been told I will not get my severence pay unless I handle the transition of outsourcing my part of the work. This is after a couple of years of harassment and abuse from my boss. Of course I stay for the paycheck and am doing the work, but I am physically and emotionally sick on a daily basis. Sometime I feel as if this is the final blow to enable me to let go of my physical life. Can you give me any insight into improving my future or let me know if I have a future? Thank you for your time. If you would like more help getting the negative things out of your life call Red or one of our other psychics now.
Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:
I’m going to start out by saying that even though I do see you having a future, it does not negate my responsibility to inform you that if you are in any way thinking about harming yourself, please call the suicide prevention hotline at 1-800-273-8255. I’m not going to sit here and tell you that you have it easy, but I can tell you that your life—the part that is ahead of you—is worth living. Secondly, while I don’t see anything/anyone around you that indicates you are cursed, for legal reasons, I couldn’t tell you if I did. So, while I’m boldly skirting a very fine line here, let’s just say you’re lucky! Well, lucky as far as your opening question goes…
I strongly want to encourage you to have your natal chart done because it feels as if you do have some astrological influences that seem to be creating havoc. We have some amazing astrologers working on the line here at California Psychics, so I strongly suggest you spend some time looking through their bios to see if you feel drawn towards any particular astrologer. If you have any doubts or confusion, please call and speak with a Customer Service Representative, because these people are quite incredible when it comes to matching people up with the correct advisor. Don’t hesitate to reveal that you are looking for an astrologer that likes to dive more deeply into their charting and calculations of not only the planets, but also some of the more influential asteroids. I’m telling you this because I believe you will benefit greatly from deeper astrological insights. I also want to encourage you to avoid many of the do-it-yourself chart websites that are available, because they aren’t going to offer you the depth or explanations that will best serve you. You need a skilled human who will go beyond just the basics.
From a psychic point of view, I can tell you that you have a lot of negative energy hanging around you, but a great deal of that is in place due to your own frustrations and your emotional pack-rat tendencies. I wouldn’t consider this to be anything less than normal, under the circumstances. Just as cleaning the clutter from your home and closets clears up and rids some negative energy, clearing out your mind does the same thing. Meditation, yoga and breathing exercises are all quite beneficial to help clear out the mental cobwebs and lower vibrations that can attract and/or hold negative energies.
When it comes to your work arena, do what you have to do, for yourself. As much as it sucks, you need to understand that other people don’t think like you, and companies most certainly don’t and won’t think like you. Sadly, it is a dog-eat-dog world out there, especially in business. And, you have made it way too easy for far too long to take advantage of you. I know you don’t want to make waves, and you are selective about confrontations, but sometimes you have to stand up for yourself, and you have to learn to say “No!” In many ways, you care too much in an uncaring environment. While that may make you a better human being, it doesn’t afford you justice. It’s not right, it certainly isn’t fair and karma ian’t always fast-acting.
Your mind and body are trying to tell you it’s time for a change. While you need a paycheck, you also need to be balanced and healthy enough to enjoy it. And, since you actually have a pretty long future ahead of you, now is the time to start making changes that benefit you. If you stick things out at work, you’ll get your severance. They’ll make you wait for it, but you’ll get it. There’s really no wise and viable option to bring suit against your boss, the company and a couple of co-workers who deserve it, because the legal fees would ultimately break you down, and no one has your back. The good news is I don’t see you spiraling down into the dark depths of financial despair. So, while you may worry about money in the present and for the future, your financial picture will remain fairly stable and take an upswing as you settle into February of 2013. You will have another job, and the atmosphere seems much more pleasant than what you are used to.
So, for the rest of the year, spend the majority of your energy on you—not everyone else. Let go of all that hurt and anger that is festering around you. If you can’t do this on your own, don’t be embarrassed to seek out a therapist to help you overcome these blockages.
You do good work at your job, and are very good at what you do, but your job really isn’t all that good for you. If you find yourself feeling particularly ticked off and feisty one day at the office, the very moment that you have a thought that even hints at not desiring your physical life anymore, pick up the phone and have an ambulance come transport you to the hospital. Not only will you get a thorough exam, discuss all of your ailments and your anxiety, you could get a bit of a rest. Having the company pay for a “medical vacation,” may be a dramatic way to begin taking care of yourself, but it will also scare the crap out of a few people who have done nothing but abuse you, their positions and power. Sure, they’ll walk on eggshells around you for a bit, but who cares? It won’t impede your future with another company.
You may not realize it, but your are respected OUTSIDE of your company. There’s a handful of people out there who will surprise you with their concern and willingness to help. But the biggest plus is once you are being medically treated, you’ll start to feel better!
You can’t change the past, but you can change the future. This beastly time will pass, but it really starts when you start taking care of you.
I hope this helps you.
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