Red Responds: He Can’t Get Over His Ex

Dear Red,

I am a gay person who is still in love with my former partner. Originally from Long Island, I moved to Virginia in July, 2005 for an employment opportunity. We have had a stormy relationship, at times, but I feel that this person is my soul mate. He hasn’t responded to my emails. I haven’t communicated with him for quite sometime, because I feel he doesn’t want to reconnect. His birthdate is 12-4-52 and mine is 9-21-50. I wonder if we will ever reconnect again. I can’t seem to get over him even though I have been dating another person.

Thank you.

Anthony in Manassas

Dear Anthony,

While I do think you will hear from your former partner, most likely around the holidays, I really don’t want to get your hopes up relative to this relationship.

It appears that you two will share a conversation, following written communication. It looks more like snail-mail than email for the initial contact. The conversation is fairly light; almost like a courtesy call. It will be relatively brief.

It seems as though your old flame has determined to move on with his life. A slightly guarded and uncomfortable “keeping in touch” relationship is possible, but I don’t see the two of you coming back together or connecting on any real level. And with as much love as you still have for this man, I really want you to prepare for this and be careful.

I honestly don’t know that you will ever “get over” him completely. That’s the down side of truly loving someone. Hope does keep love alive – it gives it power. You are still holding on to hope, even though your logical mind tells you it’s not practical. I could give you a list of reasons why you should let go of your hope and move on, but it’s up to you to decide to actually do it.

As for your soul mate – well, let me just say I don’t think you’ve met him yet. He is out there, and he will find his way to you; when the time is right.

Gay, straight, or bi – love is love. It brings with it the ultimate joys and highs of life, and leaves an aftermath of pain when it departs.

Brightest Blessings,
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  1. Tiffany D.McCrae

    To anyone that can help me: I have have had psychic experiences all of my life. I have heard someone calling my name, I have thought of family members I haven’t seen in a long time only to find out they have passed away, I have sensed presences, I have always been sensitive to others energies especially negative or sad to the point where it mentally, physically,and emotionally drains me. I have also seen little sparkles of white right above my third eye, I have dreamt of things before they happen, I know whos calling or coming before it, in other words I just know things.
    I recently had this overwhelming desire to find out WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME…I suffer from agoraphobia…severe depression…anxiety…panic disorder…PTSD…but I noticed when I m around negative people especially my family or significant other I get drained…depressed etc. To the point that it can take weeks even months to recover. I’ve reached this point in my life where I’m desperate. I just want to be happy, and feel like im in control of ME for once…I feel very unhealthy. Im an all around mess…I don’t go outside, I hate being in public places…I just want to live and enjoy life…so I found psychic empath websites and I fit ALL the descriptions and have all the symptoms…I then looked into healing crystals, meditation, and the chakras etc. Which led me to my local psychics shop…I ran into one of the psychics that works there while looking for crystals and she started reading me like a book…she said that I definitely have abilities and gave me some advice on cleansing my aura etc. But she made a couple statements that have been ringing in my head ever since she said I came close to the veil??? and she said I needed lemonade in my life??? What does lemon or lemonade do for psychics??? AM I REALLY PSYCHIC??? Someone please help me help myself 🙂


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