He Has Relapsed Several Times
I have been with my boyfriend for several years and he has struggled with substance abuse most of the time we’ve been together. I have tried to help him, and he will do well for a while. But eventually he relapses, and each relapse seems to be worse than the previous relapse. His most recent relapse landed him in the hospital. It was the third time in less than two months!
I left the state to start a new life and left our dog with a mutual friend. This friend and I talk/text almost every day because he has our dog, but also because he and I have been intimate. I can’t read him though and I feel terribly guilty because I love both of these men. I am a Capricorn; my boyfriend is a Leo and our mutual friend is a Scorpio. Do I have a future with either of them? Do either of them have feelings for me?
I am getting older and I know I have a lot of work to do on myself, but I can’t seem to focus on anything other than the feelings I have for both men. What do you think I should do?
Psychic Cameron ext. 5412 responds:
Thank you very much for your question. Readings about substance abuse always involve a lot of emotion and sometimes a great deal of pain. I asked my guides to give me the clearest information possible and I offer you my hope that there will be healing for everyone involved.
I can see that you made a powerful decision (the decision to leave) and that it took a great deal of courage. You come into my reading as the Queen of Swords—a woman who has had to make a difficult choice. I feel that you are in control, VTF, even if it doesn’t feel that way all the time. I know it was challenging leaving your boyfriend behind (especially since he is struggling with substance abuse), but my cards reveal through the Seven of Swords that something needed to change and interrupt the pattern that has been going on for years.
Your boyfriend needs help, and while I think he has made an effort towards rehabilitation, my cards suggest that more help is needed than what he is currently getting. In other words, even with the best intentions, he may, on some level, still not completely believe that he is powerless over his substance abuse and that he has to change. I see that he has been stuck and frustrated for a while now, and the cards indicate with Four of Wands that it was important for you to set a boundary. I believe this is what you did when you chose to move.
At the same time, I believe the two of you still have an emotional attachment. He has definitely not let you go and expects that when he does become sober, you come back to him. Even though you are many miles away, distance often doesn’t change much when it comes to matters of the heart. You are still very much in his thoughts, and he continues to try to recover because he wants to get better for you. But he won’t change until he gets better for himself.
At this time, you need to release your boyfriend with love. Let him know that he has your full support, but you have to make a clean break. This is very important because of your attraction to your mutual friend. If you decide to see more of the friend, you’ll want to do it openly. You are dealing with a Leo so treat his ego carefully and avoid any potential humiliation. The friend is also very attracted to you and enjoys the intrigue that comes from the two of you having private conversations and falling in love. After all, Scorpios tend to love secrets and privacy. You need to find out if your mutual friend is as interested in you when you’re single. The bottom line here is that the boundaries aren’t clear and they definitely need to be for you to move forward.
My guides suggest that you take a break, regroup, and try not to encourage your mutual friend into a long-term relationship until you are sure of what you want. Feeling torn between two men and having to keep secrets will exhaust you. Love your boyfriend by giving him enough room to heal himself, and slow down with the friend. The friend should understand if he cares about you. However, if he puts any pressure on you, let him go. And get your dog back.
There is a third person you are going to meet before the end of the year. He is someone who has no ties to this situation, and I think you are going to be very excited about this new prospect. The theme of your reading is: lovingly move on.
Take good care,
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