Psychic Q&A: Her Controlling Boyfriend

He’s Controlling Communication

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Dear Kallista,

I have been going out with someone since April 2012, and since April 2017, we’ve been having problems that lead me to believe I have a controlling boyfriend. Each time we have a problem, he shuts down and cuts off all communication with me. He won’t speak to me for a week, and then he initiates contact but then shuts down again. I don’t know what our relationship status is anymore. I am desperate because I really love him and wish to have a new life with him. What do you think I should do?


Psychic Kallista ext. 9623 responds:

Dear V.G.,

Good news! There’s hope for the two of you to work through this stressful time. The key? It will take work. You two are deeply connected. He does love you, but you’re right, he is a controlling boyfriend. The issue here is his need to control you, and he’s not above hurting you to do it. He knows well which of your buttons he needs to press to drive you wild with anxiety. He wants you to be grateful when he deigns to speak to you again. In fact, your controlling boyfriend did this kind of thing with a woman before you. That relationship ended, but it did not end well. Without help, he could lose you, too.

The hope? Hope comes in the form of couples’ counseling, however, you may have to lead the way. Find someone you like and invite your controlling boyfriend to join you too. It may take a wee bit of gentle coaxing, but he will see the wisdom in doing this with you.

Taking this step will ease the stress and help heal the communication issues between you. It will also enable you to have the new life you desire with him.

Wishing you love and joy.


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4 thoughts on “Psychic Q&A: Her Controlling Boyfriend

  1. Maddy

    From what I read, this is exactly the behavior a NPD person would do. Disappear to punish if he cannot totally and completely control this girl’s behavior. Anyone with this disorder will never go for counseling as they don’t see anything wrong with their behavior. They feel no empathy, no compassion and are incapable of loving someone. NPD are very dangerous and will break/shatter a person down to the point where their self image and self-confidence is completely destroyed. All they care about is control, power and money and if they don’t get their way, they will disappear, only to come back and be verbally (or at times physically) abusive. I put up with it for 10 years and would not wish this on my worse enemy.I wish this girl all the best and strength as I know she will need it.

  2. Beni sueli mendes

    I would like to separate my husband but I don t have money . I would like to come back my country or other state to do more money because I need to pay my credit cards. My husband not loves me , I think he loves a man. What do you think I should do?


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