How are You Going to Do it Differently?
I’ve learned that replaying your past mistakes or missed chances isn’t going to propel you forward, regardless if it’s in your relationships, your job or any part of your life. Instead of finding solutions and making choices that move you forward, you’re stuck in the past. And fear of the future keeps you from making any decisions in the present. So you’re just standing still. It’s sorta like being on a treadmill. You get a great workout, but you don’t really go anywhere.
Psychic Pilar ext. 5677 says, “Yesterday doesn’t count, and tomorrow doesn’t matter yet. What are we going to do today and how are we going to do it differently?” It’s what you do today, at this moment, that will set you up for the future steps you’ll take. What do you want to do today? Talk with Pilar to see what options are real possibilities for you.
Pull it Together
Recently, I learned what it means to pull it together and live in the present. My dog was dying. He had cancer. My husband called me at work to say our dog wasn’t doing well and that it might be time to “you know.” I dashed out of the office with tears streaming down my face. My best furry friend of 14 years was going to leave this world sooner than I had planned.
I felt myself drift into the future and imagined what it felt like without him. What would I say to my family and friends? I felt that future pain now. But what good was it to feel pain now when it wasn’t happening at this moment? I pulled myself back to the present—not denying my potential emotions and not disregarding what was about to happen. Then I felt myself drift backwards in time. I remembered the adventures I had with my dog. Again, I felt the pain of his future absence, and again I felt the tears welling in my eyes.
None of this was getting me home safely (I still had a 30-minute drive in LA traffic)! As I learned over the next 24 hours, being present meant seeing things as they are, not as I wished them to be. Have you ever found yourself playing stories of how you think things will turn out? Does it help you achieve what you want?
Don’t Settle for Less. You’re Worth More.
The same idea can be applied to your job or relationship. If you’re not getting what you want out of your job or your relationship, you’re stuck. You may think you can’t move forward. You may settle for the situation you’re in, because you may not see any options. Your vision might be clouded by assumptions, emotions or the belief you can’t do something.
Pilar shows people how to make choices that opens new possibilities. She wisely says, “‘I can’t’ is not in our vocabulary.” It may be that you don’t know how to do something at this time. That doesn’t mean you will never know how to do something. You just need to look at the situation differently and figure out what tools you need to move ahead.
Pilar looks at what got you stuck and how to release yourself from it. She looks at your situation, connects to your spirit guides and looks down your path ahead. When we project into the future (or even look at past events) our vision may be clouded by emotion. The best part is, she’s not emotionally attached to your future and can see clearly what’s ahead. What can Pilar see for you today? Call her and find your path ahead.