Picky in Love
Have you ever considered that the reason you haven’t found Mr. or Ms. Right might be because you are way too picky when it comes to finding that special someone? Quite a few people are picky when it comes to finding a long-term partner. This can be more troublesome than you think. It could actually leave you feeling alone as you grow older and may even cause some other problems within your life.
Everyone wants to be loved, whether we admit it or not. As babies, we crave love more than anything else in the world, and we continue to crave it as we grow older. It is just that some of us are better at hiding our needs than others. The problem that occurs when your expectations are way too high and unreasonable is that of isolation and loneliness. These are both damaging factors in the long run.
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Here are a few ways you can tell if you are too picky when it comes to relationships.
You Ask For The Impossible
If you have a list a mile-long stating what you want in another individual including physical traits such as 6’1 tall, blue eyes and dimples, you may be waiting to meet your special someone for an extremely long time.
Have you told your friends that you will only date someone if they are a doctor, independently wealthy or if they own their own home? If you have a list of expectations that are impossible to meet, you’ll be one lonely individual and yes, you are too picky.
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You Keep To Your Own Circle
If you expect to find your special someone in your own circle of friends and through the help of family members, you are closing yourself off to a world of opportunities. You are being too picky if you demand and expect that this is the way you will meet the love of your life.
Finding someone to love is about opening yourself up to love and the more you keep to your own circle, the less chance you have of finding it. If you are only open to meeting someone through your own personal connections and friends, you are limiting yourself, trying to control how love will happen for you and being too picky overall.
You Cut People Off Within Seconds
You are definitely too picky if after a first date you find 20 things wrong with someone. If you immediately close the door and cut that individual out of your life without question, you are going to be the one who loses out in the end. Sadly, many people have this bad habit of finding flaws in people only to push people away and keep them at a distance. There might be some work that you have to do on yourself if you are like this. Picking out flaws in another individual usually portrays low confidence and a fear of intimacy within the self. If you tend to do this on a first date and have already decided that the person is not for you within minutes, you are being too picky. You need to practice giving another individual a chance to get to know you and a chance to let you know them before cutting them out of your life.
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