Grieving and Moving On
As we approach Sept. 11, the anniversary of terror being brought world-wide, it’s interesting to see the changes in inter-personal relationships and how those changes have affected the bread-winners of the “family systems.” The economy is obviously the trigger for so much volatility amongst couples. And, if still single, finding someone to couple with makes people uneasy, since their own comfort has been challenged. The “fable” of bread-winners of “the good ole’ days” no longer exists for most. Every person on earth has been financially hurt by our struggling economy since 2001, and even more so in the last five years. Bankruptcies are at an all-time high, foreclosure the same. By looking at the effect of money and stability loss on everyone, it’s clear to see that the bread-winners of the family are more insecure, more volatile and more fearful about supporting the family. And therefore may have secluded “normal” emotion in order to function in their daily lives.
The bigger effect of this in inter-personal relationships is that new relationships can hardly get a start. People ask themselves, why get involved with another person when their own financial home and security are at risk? People don’t purposely think about the reason for being “closed off” emotionally. Many people are calling and asking me “where did he/she go? Is it over? But it was so good” I say that people and life have become “just the way it/they are during these difficult times” As we all learn to live in the “new” financial environment and adjust to it; once again love will bloom for everybody. No need to despair, embrace everyday while you allow your heart to stay open and learn.
We are in such difficult times. My predictions are that between now and October 18, we will begin to see the adjustments of the economy becoming a new reality. By November, people will begin to move into the consciousness and growing what they have into more. Not looking back with remorse at losses is the key to moving forward. Forgiving ourselves allows us to move into the “newness” of what life is about to unfold for every one of us. We have all seen such craziness this year with weather and have all had some emergencies. We are all, as a world, moving closer to living with change, and that is a good thing. I do see a very bright future for everyone that is willing to turn their fear over to God because only God can handle yesterday and what’s to come tomorrow.
If you stay present every day, and make the most of each day, whatever the circumstances, life will be great and all that it can be. If you need help in understanding something in your particular life you can always call us at California Psychics and we will lend a hand with our guides and yours.