How Do I Know if They Will Come Back to Me?

Not knowing what is happening in a relationship or what is going on with your partner can be stressful. Every situation can be different but lets see what may be really going on.

Growing in Love

I have found this to be one of the ultimate questions: “Will They Come Back to Me?”

It happens to the best of us. He or she pursues you with vigor, and you fall head over heels in love with them, and then POOF! They cut off communication suddenly without leaving any explanation or leaving you with any closure. You’re left wondering what happened.

Sometimes it is possible for the person to come back later with an explanation, and sometimes it just isn’t in the cards. A number of things could have happened to make this person stop pursuing you. For instance, maybe something in their life happened that they felt they needed to focus on, they could have felt like things were moving too fast and got cold feet, or they simply could have felt you weren’t interested or weren’t the one for them. Do you have a similar situation but want to know what the tarot cards say about you; then contact a knowledgeable psychic today.

The good thing about these situations is it really gives us an opportunity to learn. How fast was this blossoming relationship going? Was I too eager, or did I show disinterest?

Maybe it’s true that slow and steady wins the race, because if we take the time to build a solid foundation in our relationships, and really get to know the other person’s soul, we are building a bond with them—a lasting bond. Maybe instead of falling in love, we should consider growing in love.

While you’re waiting for this person, the best thing to do is to go back to how you were living before they came into your life. This is how you attracted them before, and this is how you can attract them again.

I’m willing to bet before you met this person you had all of your ducks in a row. You did activities you enjoyed, you went out to places you liked, you probably spent time with your friends and you were busy and decently happy. It was those things that attracted that person to you. Once you were wrapped up with them, you probably stopped doing those things to spend more time with this person, so when they stopped pursuing you, it hurt all the more.

When we start giving up the things we were doing and enjoying before we fell in love, we may seem like a different person. A good plan when we start seeing someone new is to be able to balance the things we already have going on with the start of a new relationship. This keeps things slow and steady so we can build a solid bond. This keeps us interesting and fresh and prevents future resentment. We become more attractive, and our time with that person is more valuable.

If he has left, it’s not always too late. If you start going back to doing the things you loved before, you could possibly attract that person back or someone even better suited for you and apply the new rules you’ve learned.

6 thoughts on “How Do I Know if They Will Come Back to Me?

  1. Utkarsh

    As a native of Dade City, Florida who reeltncy relocated close to New York City, I’ve gotten my fair share of oh, so you’re from the country by which from the country in mid-Atlantic parlance means southern white trash, though not quite so insidiously. This guy is just an idiot. And besides, the Yankees aren’t quite as WASP-y as they used to be, if they ever were. Just look at A. J. Burnett. He has a southern drawl and a bunch of tattoos is he street ? Nick Swisher doesn’t exactly come across as a Frank Sinatra-loving guy, either. But that hardly matters! Why can’t these people just focus on athleticism?

  2. elvis

    we been maried 18 years ago we have 3 dothers 18 17 12 we now devorsed ilove this women she is my life the reason whay we devorced i ustu drink sometimes i m sober 6 mo now and she doing to some mistake what i use do sometimes she going aut 6pm coming next day 8 am she live the kids home by self my 18 and 17 going aut to drink smoking party vip section and she dosent said no to them i see what happening and 12 years dother she is home alone not good area she seed kids be fine i want my ex wife back in marrige now she dathing i think sombady from bosnia long distance and guy ic not goog for her what to do i purchase ex recorevery system somtimes works till about 1 mo ago when she want go aut whit friend she is 38 and bf 23 24 she works in cassino for $5 + tips i dont know what to do to come back to me i give my life for this women but she chaing to much i short time help we live 2 blocks apart 913 608 0987 asap

  3. Wendy

    I’ve known this man for about a year and a half. We had something going on, not exactly a relationship though. It seems to me like he was scared of falling in love. Is this possible? Everything was okay, we would talk and text, and then out of no where he stops calling or texting. I’ve tried reaching him several times already, but he doesn’t respond. I just want to know what happened. Or if he didn’t want to talk to me, he should have said so. instead of leaving me wondering why… I still hope he comes back to me soon.

  4. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Great article, Allana

    You gave very good, grounded, advice…..

    And I might add this : about half, 40 to 50 %, of them DO come back.


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