Why you should or shouldn’t sleep together is a question that may run through a man or woman’s head at the end of a date.
Should You or Shouldn’t You?
Oh, you know the moment. It’s the end of date night and you’re standing outside the restaurant, your car or your house contemplating the possibility of sleeping with the person in front of you. Let’s check out a few scenarios where you’re much better off going home to a cold shower than hooking up with this potential nightmare.
Unless all you’re looking for is a one-night stand, it’s best never to give it away too soon! Allow a deeper connection to form by dating one another for a little time first—not only is there a greater chance for a potential relationship down the line if you’re a good fit, but knowing the person you’re becoming intimate with a little better can never hurt! Get more personalized advice, contact a psychic today!
The Chemistry Just Isn’t There
So you’ve tried all night to amp up the attraction between you two, but this is just one of those things that can’t be forced. If the attraction simply isn’t there, the odds of you having a good time in bed are zilch. Best to cut your losses early and use your time and energy to find a more compatible partner!
“Think of dating like a major job interview and you are the employer. You want to make sure you are hiring the right person to take good care of your heart.” – Psychic Simone ext. 5346
You’ve Realized You Don’t Even Really Like Him
If after getting to know him a bit you’ve come to the realization that you just don’t really like him as a person, then by all means, keep your dignity! There’s got to be another choice in your near hook-up future where you’re not compromising yourself and your self-esteem. Want to know who your next choice is? Ask Psychic Lucy ext. 5353 for a love reading today.
You’re More Interested in Their Friend
The surest way to complicate or ruin your chances to be with someone is to sleep with their friend. Not only will you look easy and less attractive in his eyes, but he very well may see you as off-limits out of respect for the friend you have bedded.
You’re in Rebound Mode
This is always a bad idea, and even though many could say they’ve done it at some point in their dating history, many would also express deep regrets. Most likely you’ll be feeling sad and less-than-complete after a breakup, but sex with someone you just don’t care for will not alleviate those feelings. Need help getting over an ex? Talk with Psychic Maryanne ext. 9146 who can help heal your heart and mind.
You’re Positive You Won’t Respect Yourself in the Morning
Just because it’s easy and offered to you doesn’t make it a good idea! If you know you’ll regret it in the morning, why put yourself through that mess? It’s better to have a night home alone than one that will live forever as a reminder of you compromising your morals/standards.
“Learn to say no to whatever does not serve your highest power and purpose.” – Psychic Robin ext. 5492