Stop Doing These Things Right Now!
There’s plenty of bad bedroom mojo to be had, so this is why we’re going to talk about the top seven things you should never do during sex. While most of these behaviors are interchangeable between the sexes, we’ll separate them for fun this time. Read on to make sure your bedroom moxie isn’t being hindered by these erotic faux pas.
For The Ladies…
While it may be tempting to make yourself seem as desirable as possible to your lover by claiming to be more sexually open-minded than you actually are, neither of you will enjoy things if you’re too far outside your comfort zone! It’s best to talk things through with your partner, and if you’d like to experiment, find ways to do it that have you comfortable enough to really enjoy the experience. Sexual experimentation is only fun if you’re honest with yourself and your partner. Having trouble being honest? Psychic Alison ext. 9885 can help!
If you like or don’t like something he’s doing, you’re leaving him guessing if you don’t say something! Most men think women are more complex than they are and so they will be the first to admit that they sometimes need clues to figure you out. No need for a Shakespearean monologue—just let him know that whatever he’s doing is working.
A Million Questions
While communication during sex is key, overloading him with questions about how he’s feeling or what he prefers can quickly kill the mood. Trust yourself and pay attention to the cues he’s giving you.
For The Gents….
The Immediate Roll-Over
It’s a stereotype for a good reason: men typically feel like going to sleep immediately after sex, which can often leave women feeling revved up, awake and alone. As sex is the most physically intimate thing you can do with another person, take a few minutes to bask in the afterglow together. When you both finally do turn over and go to sleep, you wont have to worry about any hurt feelings!
Porn Bedside Manners
While you may love your high-quality porn movies and adventures, bringing certain graphic expectations into the bedroom can be a major disaster. First, you may need to come to terms with the fact that porn isn’t real life and many of those women probably aren’t enjoying themselves nearly as much as their screams proclaim. There’s nothing wrong with experimentation in the name of fun, but give your partner a head’s up and talk through what she’s comfortable with beforehand.
Bad Oral Sex Manners
It’s no secret that men adore oral sex, so that means if you want it a lot, it’ll serve you well to make sure she finds it enjoyable enough to ensure future reruns. This means letting her set the pace unless she says otherwise, and being courteous enough to let her know when you are going to orgasm.
Weird Pet Names
Throwing out weird nicknames that your lover has never heard of can be a major turnoff—especially monikers which intrude into highly sensitive areas. Demeaning nicknames that magnify a woman’s sensitive issues, particularly body issues, are a huge no-no. Your little pet names aren’t as cute as you think they are. For real ways to increase intimacy with your significant other, give Psychic Rianne ext. 9423 a call.