Psychic Michael ext. 9604 explains it so well in the video below: Men don’t like to share their emotions. Women: We share, if not over share, our emotions with everyone! That’s not a bad thing, but I often hear women get upset when they cannot figure out what their man is thinking or feeling.
We, women, genuinely need that information to better understand what makes out mates tick (or not tick, as the case may be). Michaelprovides a few tips for men on how to better connect with and understand their partners.
Listen to What She is Asking
This could mean turning off or muting the TV, setting down the iPad or cell phone, turn your body towards her and look her in the eyes. Sometimes we just need to be heard. I know men love to help fix things, but sometimes just hearing us is all we need. So just sit and listen, please. We’ll let you know if it needs to be fixed.
Share Your Emotions and Your Thoughts
The next time you go out to eat, tell her about your day (don’t forget to ask her about her day). If you’re eating something that tastes really great (or really bad), share that. Share your thoughts about going out with friends. You don’t have to share your thoughts on everything or all the time. By sharing a bit of yourself, the connection is deepened between you and your partner. She doesn’t have to guess what you’re thinking, and you won’t get so burnt out with her constantly asking, “What are you thinking?”
Be Spontaneous, Occasionally
We all like our routines, but I think we all get a little too set in our ways. Occasionally, break out of your normal routine and do something different. Men, plan a night out with your woman (don’t wait for her to plan something). It doesn’t need to be extravagant, but different than what you normally do.