Are You Crossing a Line?
Hiedy from Indanloa, Iowa asks:
What should you do if your best friend kissed your boyfriend?
Hm, this depends on all kinds of factors. Did he kiss her back? Did she just kiss him, or did they make out? Was it a joke and done in front of you, or behind your back and something you walked in on/saw by accident? If my best friend kissed my boyfriend, namely as in kissing him behind my back and him kissing her back, I’d probably give both of them a good piece of my mind, before breaking ties with her and him.
For me, trust is one of the top three traits I am looking for in friends and my partner. If I can’t trust you, I won’t have anything to do with you. Because in the end, you will only hurt me or break my heart. Any woman who makes a move on my man is out. A best friend would never do that; end of discussion.
“Real trust takes real time.” – Reed ext. 5105
Any guy who gives into, or makes a move on my friends is also out. That type of behavior is never acceptable to me. Friends of current boyfriends or exes of mine are always off limits and I expect the same from my friends.
The thing is that I simply will not engage with people who do not have the same core values than I do. These values include honesty, integrity, kindness, loyalty and trustworthiness.
So if the kiss was an innocent kind of thing, I’d move on. From your question, though, it sounds as if it wasn’t and if they went behind your back, gets rid of them. Anyone deserves better than a friend who makes a move on your guy and a guy who went along with it.
“To attain the love you want, be prepared to be, or work to become, the type of person you want to attract!” – Yemaya ext. 5143
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