What do you do when someone breaks your heart, leaves you, but comes crawling back for help later? Do you turn them away or help them? Setting healthy boundaries protects you from being hurt.
Should I Help Her?
Randie from Oak Grove, Louisiana asks:
Its amazes me that I still have feelings for this girl who did me wrong. Now things are not going right for her so every now and then she calls me for help, but I feel like she should have appreciated me when she had me. Am I wrong for being so mean to her? Can’t get over the one who did you wrong? Psychic Shauna ext. 9010 can help!
You are not being mean at all! What you are doing is setting healthy boundaries and standing up for yourself, which is never wrong. Plus, I absolutely agree with you. If she treated you badly while you were with her, and only seemed to be interested once the others were gone, she’ll dump you again, as soon as “someone better” comes around again.
Put your feelings in perspective and respect yourself. You may still have feelings for this girl, but chances are these feelings are not so much for her and more about what happened, i.e., your ego. I know it can be a real ego-boost when a person we liked dumped us and then comes back, but know that this return has usually very little to do with wanting to be with you, and tends to be more about her not wanting to be alone right now. Do they want you back or do they just not want to be alone? Psychic Alison ext. 9885 knows the difference!
Good luck and don’t waste your time and energy on losers. Stick to your guns and let her go.
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