What’s Sexy: Do Men and Women Agree?

Sexy Goes Deeper Than Looks

What is it about women that men find sexy? And what is it about a man that makes a woman’s heart race? Most people think of physical traits when it comes to defining sexiness, but that isn’t always true. The mind can be sexy and so can the actions we do. Let’s move past the comments we all make when an attractive person walks into the room and get down to the business of being sexy on a deeper level!

What Men Think is Sexy

Eye Contact

A man thinks a woman is sexy when she makes eye contact with him. It means that she is acknowledging what he has to say and is actively listening. It suggests that she is caring at attentive.


A man loves a confident woman. Even if she doesn’t feel confident all the time, she can fake it and win the hearts of the men around her. As they say, “Fake it until you make it.” A confident women is grounded and secure. Insecurity and low self-esteem aren’t attractive qualities for anyone to have.

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A Strong Laugh

Okay, we don’t mean that a woman should cackle like a hyena or a wicked witch. Snorting is not sexy either. But a woman should have a laugh that is strong, yet happy. Laughter shows that you appreciate humor and know how to let loose and relax. A woman who likes to laugh is a free-spirited lady and if she is laughing at a man’s jokes, the man will appreciate it and find her sexy.

Be Mysterious

Don’t reveal everything about yourself right away. Be mysterious. Have a busy social life outside of the man you are seeing and don’t tell him everything you’re doing. It may annoy him, but it will also intrigue him. He will pursue you and fight for your time and attention as well as the chance to get to know you better.

Be Physical

This one’s not all about sex, so get your mind out of the gutter! Men like to be touched, whether it is brushing crumbs of his jacket or putting your hand on his knee. Men love having a constant, physical connection. It makes them think about what’s to come when he’s alone with his woman and that is sexy!

Be Adventurous

You don’t have to scale a mountain or drive race cars for a man to find you sexy. How about trying new foods and going to new places? Enjoy what life has to offer rather than be a homebody.

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Men adore a woman who is the perfect combination of beauty and brains. They want an articulate woman with life experience. She is educated and she has traveled. Perhaps she enjoys reading great world literature.

Be Well-spoken

Women who use language to bully, swear and act thuggish are not sexy to most men. Men want an assertive women with a gentle tone. Being sexy means avoiding cursing, shouting and mocking others.

What Women Think is Sexy

Communication Skills

Women like men who know how to communicate well. If he can hold a conversation, he is sexy. He should be an active listener who can pay attention for more than a few minutes. Women like having serious, deep conversations with men, so guys, start talking more.

Be Respectful

A man who respects women, and all people for that matter, is sexy. A chivalrous man is sexy, whether some women will admit it or not. A man who criticizes others and is rude is not sexy.

Financial Security

Women like a man who is financially secure and ambitious. If he can take care of himself and those around him, he is not only sexy, but he’s honorable. Women want a man who is always trying to better himself.

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Physical Touch

Women like to be touched. It makes them feel good about themselves and when a man touches a woman, he is reaffirming his bond to her. In public, when a man touches his woman it means that he is proud to be with her.

 Be Spontaneous

Keeping a woman constantly guessing is sexy (but not about the status of your relationship). Women like surprises and spontaneous adventures.


If a man is confident, he is sexy. He doesn’t have to be the most attractive man in the room; he just has to feel good about himself. He shouldn’t be narcissistic or egotistical.


Out of all the traits that make a man sexy, a good sense of humor ranks high. A man who can make a woman laugh is sexy because his humor takes her away from the stress of her day and lightens her hear.

There are so many character traits and actions that can make a man or woman sexy, but these are some of the best ones to take note of. If in doubt, walk and talk with confidence and you’ll appear sexy to a variety of women and men.

7 thoughts on “What’s Sexy: Do Men and Women Agree?

  1. LJ

    Great article. And maybe financial security isn’t so much a concern as having someone who isn’t lazy, who takes pride in his work and thinks a bit about the future and doesn’t live solely for the moment. I think that’s what a women thinks of under the heading of “financial security,” especially if they want a family – someone who shows he’s responsible and unselfish.

  2. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Hi Nicholas,

    I agree with you ,…..but in the article…I noticed that women put financial security on their list.

  3. nicolas

    me too I agree what both men and women think of each other as sexy in this article. For the Rose comment : I don’t care if a woman have money or not, actually why should that make her sexy ? Totally irrelevant. I think … 🙂

  4. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    interesting article….in that men don’t list the financial security in women as being important…..BUT….women list the financial security of a man as being important.


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