Trust is Something to Earn
Trust is a two-way street, serving as the true foundation of every relationship. If your partner has broken your trust, you may be wondering if it’s worthwhile to rebuild that trust. You have your work cut out for you—even if you both are committing to rebuilding your relationship. However, if you’re willing to make the effort, the rewards are well worth the journey of rebuilding trust again. Here are some tips to help you start.
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Develop Ground Rules
Moving past the indiscretion means agreeing to certain ground rules to reestablish a solid, positive foundation. Rule one, of course, would be to never repeat the indiscretion. Beyond that, establish whatever parameters you both need to feel safe enough to explore your newly evolving, healthy relationship. Another valuable ground rule may be agreeing not to use the infidelity as a weapon against your partner in future arguments. If you both truly want to move past the issue, you need to work on putting it to rest, not rehashing it to use as ammunition during the next disagreement.
Talk Through the Situation
Another way to move past infidelity is to openly talk about it so you can begin again. Communicate with your partner and figure out why things went wrong so you can begin the journey towards fixing it and rebuilding trust. Give yourself time to explain how their actions affected you as well as how you felt, thought and reacted to the situation. Through honesty and open communication, you can certainly achieve mutual understanding and begin planning a constructive game plan for redeveloping your relationship in a healthy way.
Give Up Privacy
Rebuilding trust means proving they’re worthy of trust. This means that the offending partner should agree to become an open book, sharing their every move if necessary—texts, emails, appointments, etc. Realize that while this may seem extremely imposing, at some point they were given enough privacy to hide infidelity. If the cheating partner has nothing to hide, they shouldn’t mind living their life so openly if it means they will be trusted once again.
Test Your Partner
It’s okay to test your partner to see if they’re trustworthy. Consider giving them a bit of privacy and see how they use it. Make sure they’re being honest about where they are, who they’re with, and what they’re doing. Ask them to call you or text you and see how long they take. Make sure they support your activities and events by showing up too. Overall, you need to make sure they’re doing what they need to do to make you feel like you can trust them again.
Are You Wasting Your Time?
Don’t waste your time rebuilding trust with a partner who is untrustworthy. If they repeatedly cheat on you, they certainly aren’t going to change. If they constantly make excuses and refuse to acknowledge your feelings, they aren’t worth it. It’s time to move on.
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