Are You a Dating Sinner or Saint?
Dating can become treacherous ground when you’re straddling the line between friendship and intimacy. We want to be so many things to everyone, but sometimes the best policy is to be honest with yourself about who you are, and what you’re looking for in a partner. If you have to commit any of these seven deadly dating sins in order to maintain a relationship, chances are it’s not worth it.
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1. Lust: Thou Shall Not Rush Into Sex
Sex is a fundamental part of a romantic relationship, but rushing into sex too soon can undermine true intimacy, replacing it with lust. A worthy partner doesn’t need to have sex within the first few dates. They may be thinking about it, and if you allow them certain advantages, they may certainly take the initiative, but in truth, they are probably more enthralled with the chase than the reward. If you give away all your treasure and mystery before they’ve had to work for it, they could quickly lose interest. As with most things in life, the more you have to work for something, the more you will appreciate it once it’s yours. Therefore, when it comes to sex, pump the breaks, and avoid this deadly dating sin.
2. Pride: Thou Shall Not Change Your Partner
Pride has many faults, such as desiring perfection in ourselves and our mate. But one of the worst things you can do in this pursuit is to assume that you have the ability to change someone into everything you’ve ever wanted. They may want to change, they may even tell you they can change, but in general, you should assume that what you see is what get. The only caveat is to realize when you’re being overly picky. While it may be annoying that they snort when laughing at reruns of Seinfeld or can’t give a decent massage to save their life, these traits really aren’t a good reason to throw away a potentially satisfying relationship!
3. Greed: Thou Shall Not Expect Too Much Early On
One of the major deadly dating sins is expecting too much, too soon in a romantic relationship. The early stages of any romantic relationship should be about getting to know each other. Your likes and dislikes, your dreams for the future, your reasonable expectations, and your hobbies should be the focus in the early stages of a relationship. And if you even make a commitment in the form of a long-term relationship down the road, take everything in stride and just enjoy being together. Give and receive gifts but don’t demand big-ticket items on the regular. Dollar signs don’t equal love.
4. Gluttony: Thou Shall Not Smother Your Partner
In the beginning stages of a relationship, it’s so easy to become obsessed with your partner to the point where you’re smothering them. You probably want to be with them all the time and have major separation anxiety if you’re apart. Perhaps you neglect your friends, your job, your family, and even yourself for the sake of dating. You’re overdosing on your partner and there really is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Instead, seek balance. Your love life is just one important facet of who you are, so give your partner a reasonable amount of space … for your sake and for theirs.
5. Wrath: Thou Shall Not Blame Your Current Partner for Your Ex’s Mistakes
Expecting everyone to be like your exes is a recipe for disaster. After all, what’s the point of being in a romantic relationship with someone new if you’re just going to treat them like someone you’ve already been with? That is one of the major deadly dating sins right there! In order for real love to prosper, you must treat each new relationship as a blank slate. You must also leave your relationship baggage behind. If you aren’t ready to do that, you aren’t ready to be in a relationship.
6. Envy: Thou Shall Not Compare Relationships
Stay clear of love interests who like to compare you to their exes and offer advice on how to become more of what they prefer in a mate. Resist the urge to mold your current partner into the perfect mate too. And don’t look to other couples who seem to have it all. They don’t, even if they’d like to pretend they do. You don’t need to be perfect to be loved. Your partner doesn’t need to be perfect to deserve love either. Focus on your own relationship and don’t worry about what everyone else is doing.
7. Sloth: Thou Shall Not Get too Comfortable
One of the best things about being in a long-term relationship is how comfortable that love feels. However, there is such a thing as too much comfort that it looks like laziness. Don’t get lazy with love. Don’t skip date nights and be sure to dress up for each other every now and then. Look for special ways to connect, always make time for each other, and try new things … in and out of the bedroom.
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