Soulmates: The Eternal Question
I often get asked the question “Is he or she my soulmate?” I do my best to answer as my Guide of Wisdom has explained it to me. I will start with the definitions given to me in hopes that this will help enlighten the process of soul evolution. Again, this is from my guides and angels who I trust for answers and understanding.
Souls are a collective energy of lifetimes of experiences, memories, lessons and growth. You can return for many different reasons and many different objectives. There are all stages of souls in any given human lifetime. I am told there are still new souls born into this lifetime; they are rare but not impossible to meet. For the majority of people we meet, their souls have experienced many human lifetimes. Some we meet are very old souls and they are preparing for their spiritual transformation into future stages.
For each lifetime we return, there are other souls we shared experiences with, and these become our soul groups or soul families. We tend to experience lifetimes with the same souls over and over for different reasons or different lessons or different growth attachments. When your soul finds love with a soul from previous lifetimes, in the current lifetime, this is when they become your soulmate. For some it is one soulmate in this lifetime, but for others it can be more than one soulmate in this lifetime. I am also told you may have soulmates from other lifetimes and for some, even more than once, but it does not mean you will be soulmates in this lifetime. It truly depends on why your soul has decided to come back and for what purpose. Twin flames are different altogether, I’m told, and they need to be addressed separately at another time.
The reason there is such a pull or connection between people who are from the same soul group is because of the familiar feel and comfortable energy over lifetimes. Again, because this is important and often confusing, just because you’re here during this lifetime together, doesn’t mean you’re soulmates for this lifetime. It can be frustrating, because your souls remember many lifetimes together and pull the two of you together, but if the lesson or growth or commitment is not aligning with the reason for the return, or if one person’s growth for this lifetime is not where it should be, then the souls cannot stay connected at that time. Life is not predestined. There are destinies or purposeful things for the soul, but this stage of life includes free will. I’m told that there will be other stages that do not include free will, but for now the focus is on this human lifetime.
The fact is that without being with someone from your soul group, you can still find love, because for this lifetime your objective may have been to be more independent without the help of souls from your past. So when it comes to the question of soulmates, it’s hard to give a clear answer without examining more of who and where you are in this lifetime.
It’s easy for me to see soul groups, because my guides show me a symbol. It’s a beautiful symbol best described as two brilliantly golden rings intersecting, radiating light energy and producing the most amazing, golden-purple glow. So yes, it’s easy for me to see soul groups, but it takes so much more to become true soulmates. When the soulmate connection develops, you experience a love so deep, strong, complex and magical. You begin to know you have never truly loved anyone like this relationship. Most importantly, your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level. The soulmate relationship brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness for both of you, and both of you are so grateful to be together.
The idea of a soulmate relationship is everything you dreamed it could be, and finding your soulmate is one of the most satisfying relationships to embrace. I thank my Guide of Wisdom for such an amazing communication, and if I can help or if you have any questions about your relationship, please call me, Deejay ext. 5435, or one of the many other wonderful California Psychics. We are here for you.