Should You Dump Him
You can’t always get what you want. The Rolling Stones sang that many moons ago, and it’ll be true to the end of time. When a relationship is over, it’s over. You need to know if this is truly the time to dump him. It’s up to you to see the signs and decide when the time is right, but here’s a little help.
Get in touch with your own feelings. Are the spats and sniping sessions all his fault or do you carry some ownership? Are you a bit crankier than you once were? Or is he truly not connected to you and fails to give you the respect you deserve?
Psychic Zofeya ext. 5351 says, “The first step is to get quiet and go within. How do you feel the relationship is going?
Take out your deepest feelings and turn them over for inspection. Be scrupulously honest with yourself and determine how much you are willing to tolerate. It’s one thing to overlook human error, but quite another to allow someone to abuse you or misuse you, even verbally.”
How do you handle it when it’s time to call it quits? Expert psychic adviser Miss Krystal ext. 9192 offers, “We must be willing and wanting to walk away…if not, it’s time to start accepting them as they are.”
If you begin to see signs of non-loving behavior, it’s tough to believe your eyes, but trust your instincts. Listen, watch, and learn. Gina Rose ext. 9500 has your best interest at heart when she says, “Being observant and objective, in watching for a repeating pattern or cycle of behavior is key.”
When a partner strays, the evidence is usually pretty clear. It doesn’t take a genius to notice someone else’s perfume clinging to your man. When he’s always too busy to make plans with you, but has tons of time for private texting or cell calls, you cold be in trouble. If he’s willing to stray, you have to be willing to let him go.
Red ext. 9226 will tell you from experience, “Love truly can be blinding, especially when we want so badly to believe that the person we have given our heart to is actually worthy of the gift.” Experts like Red know that the only person you can change is yourself, and if your guy is determined to be controlling or disregards your feelings and isn’t interested in sharing ideas, he’ll be that way till the end of time.
Yep, it might feel warm and fuzzy to look back on the early days of passion and honeymoon behavior, but the reality of right now is what counts. Psychic Reed ext. 5105 says the Stones had it right. Reed says, “I often tell my callers that this is the real world. It can be cold and hard sometimes and you will not always get what you deserve—but you will always get what you settle for.”
When you’re deeply involved, but that tiny inner voice tells you to proceed with caution.. Slow down, say the experts, and take stock. That’s not always easy when emotions are involved — this is the perfect time to reach out for a skilled reading. Zofeya ext. 5351 says she relies on good advice when she’s in doubt, “The Tarot gets me started on what’s going on, and from there I pull in the bigger picture and the details.”
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