What to Do If You Said I Love You Too Soon

You are in a relationship and you have contemplated proclaiming your love to that dream mate of yours and you drop the “L” word. It seemed like a great idea and action on your feelings but did you just take a spin of relationship roulette? Let’s investigate this a little more and see what the right path and proper recovery might be.

If You Said It too Soon, Here’s What to Do

Moonlight, candlelight, roses, and wine. Your head spins a little, you feel in love with love and life is beautiful as you take a slow breath and whisper, “I love you, too.” But before the words are completely off your lips, your hackles rise, your brain kicks into high gear, and your inner voice screams, “Wait! What’s wrong with you?” Ask a psychic about your situation today!

You know you don’t love them, too. The fact is, sometimes you wonder if you like them enough to spend another evening together. They’re charming, even great to look at. They’re funny, sociable, and always around. Maybe you begin to find they’re also needy, and a little selfish, and pushier than you like. They might turn out to be Mr./Mrs. Right, but until you’re sure, take control and un-ring that bell!

Who doesn’t get swept up in the heat and glitter of a romantic moment or the pleasure of a new relationship? When you figure out it was a moment, not a commitment, put on the brakes and level with the person. Do it in a quiet moment alone with them when you’re not feeling anxious or guilty. Turn up the lights, forget about soft music, and for heaven sake, ditch the adult beverages, for now.

Don’t Throw Away a Good Thing

You’re heart and soul tell you honesty is the only policy. Get into your own psyche before you decide what you want to say. If you think a clean break is the right thing to do, have at it. Apologize for saying those three little words too soon. Take ownership of the problem and don’t topple their self-esteem.

On the other hand, if you see potential in the relationship but need to slow it down, be honest about that, too. If you can talk with them about something so sensitive, that’s a great omen. Explain that you’re unsure. Explain that the pleasure of the moment made you feel close to him, but love is serious and you’re not there yet.

“If it’s really true-one day you will “just know” and it will feel different from all of the others.” – Psychic Maryanne ext. 9146

Two things can happen here. If they’re not mature enough to handle real feelings, they may react negatively and hit the road. But chances are, if you’re intuiting good character in them, they’ll understand your feelings and give you room to grow into love.

The keys to repairing the situation are maturity, honesty, and respect for each other. With warmth and empathy, you can find a way to share honest feelings with another person. It’s pretty important to be sure of love when it happens. The worst outcome would be to pretend you’re in love and end up in the wrong partnership. No words can fix that, no timing can make it ok.

“Know love and how it works for you, seek other ways to attain the love that meets your aware Self, here and now.” – TeriLynn ext. 9625

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6 thoughts on “What to Do If You Said I Love You Too Soon

  1. Taryn

    Sounds like you all GET IT. Love is serious and not to be taken lightly. Thanks for reading and for chiming in!
    –taryn

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  2. Marie Militello

    It’s so easy to say “I Love You” – but in reality, all some people really want to say is “I Lust for You”. It is a beautiful feeling when truely felt; unfortunately too many individuals treat the feeling as a ‘door-way’ into your home – life – and bank account! There are too many ‘Sociopaths’ in this days society. It’s -“what can you do for ME” rather than what can we attribute to each other! Sorry – lost the true meaning of “LOVE” today. I’d rather share that feeling with children and animals – that’s un-requited!

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  3. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Nice little article…..love the title,

    I just had a client tell me that she uttered those same words recently and kicked herself the very next day, and didn’t know how to take those words back, in a kind way.

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  4. R

    Based on experience if someone tells u I love u on ur first date it’s rings a bell that he’s not sincere ive been fooled twice by men who said it too soon and because I needed to feel lived and love I believed them and ended up broken hearted twice they might even use that phrase in every relationship they’re in with every girl they meet just to let the other person fall in love with u , and they start calling u their wife in public and every weekend ur together he says it’s our honey moon our first then second then third then he starts to show his true colors and his real personality I hope that no one gets deceived by such characters because when u realize uve been had its too late .

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  5. JULIET

    I AM IN LOVE WITH MY DOCTOR , BUT HE HAS WIFE AND KIDS , I STARTED LOVING HIM MORE AFTER HE SAVED MY LIFE ALMOST DYING, IS THERE ANYWAY I CAN FIND OUT HE HAS FEELING TOWARD TO ME , OR SOMEDAY I’LL BE ABLE DATE HIM

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