A man has many fears, but his secret fear is an overly fearful woman and the perception he may not be able to solve the problem.
A Fearful Woman
As a son lies in bed fretting over the things that go bump in the night, there is a father not too far away, trembling over the thought of things not going bump between the sheets. However, men have more than just sex fears. We also fret over poor job performance, being a father, and how we rank according to Google (how many pages we show up on). The thing is, most of these are not exactly secrets, as most women understand that men are concerned with the legacy they will leave behind. What many women do not realize is that many of men’s fears are dependent on their own insecurities. In other words…
Men Fear a Fearful Woman
A man is biologically drawn to protect his nest. As a husband, his priorities become his wife and children. We can see the dynamics of this relationship in the animal kingdom. The male is primarily responsible for protecting the family. The female keeps them safe using her dynamic sense of sight and hearing, which is often superior to the male’s. All you have to do is spend an afternoon at the grocery store with your grandparents in order to verify this observation (just kidding—well, mostly). Get more personalized advice, contact a psychic today!
In many animal species, the female warns the male of pending danger, to which he responds by taking the necessary steps to protect his pride (herd). In the human realm, this story is not really all that different. A woman’s fears are often a delight to men, as this gives him the opportunity to make himself her knight in shining armor. The problem is, in a modern society, barricading the door and puffing his chest will do little to reassure her of his health and job security. In other words, his armor will tarnish eventually. Are you stuck waiting for your knight in shining armor? He doesn’t exist! Psychic Shauna ext. 9010 can paint a more realistic picture of love for you!
How many women do you know who are fretting over something right now? How many of their men are balking at this, telling them to chill out? Women are the caretakers of a family, so it is only natural for them to keep an eye out for trouble. Unfortunately, some women are constantly in emergency mode, and this not only drains her energy, but also eats away at his. She dreams of a day when everything will fit in its place, and she will no longer feel anxious. However, this day will never come; not unless she lets it.
Something to Do
A woman’s fears weigh heavily on a man’s conscience. According to research, women embrace their fears, as it defines their femininity. Men take them head on, like a raging bull plowing through a field of daisies. When a man fails to conquer a fear, he removes himself from the source. This is why when a woman expresses fear, and her man is unable to help her; he becomes distant, frustrated, and angry. His biology is telling him to take a more aggressive stance towards defending his turf, but the only person he is really defending himself against is his partner, so she ends up taking the brunt of his aggression.
As Jules Masserman’s research suggests, feelings of helplessness are intensified by fear. Men are helpless when protecting a fearful woman, and she often feels like a victim because she is really helpless against herself. Women are taught by society to be a passive spectator to fear, meaning she feels like she has no control over what happens. Masserman suggested that one way out of this circle of fear is to blind this fear with action. In other words, “The feeling of helplessness intensifies fear, however, having something to do, reduces it.” Fear is not necessarily the enemy; not if we learn to control it. If you are having a hard time controlling your fear, you should give Psychic Dawn ext. 9777 a call. She has the tools you need to conquer your fears.
Men are no longer just a provider and protector. And women, you are not responsible for all the wrongs in the world. Men need to turn to their partners during their greatest times of stress, and ask them what they need. Men need to understand that asking for help is not a sign of weakness. Women need to release a portion of their responsibilities (worries) to their men, allowing them to feel useful. As long as men and women are actively taking action to guide themselves towards their destiny, there is little to fear.