Knowing whether or not a relationship is a fling or true love that can last forever is always a tricky thing. Sometimes we need to break things done and answer some questions to find the answers.
True Love Test: Do You Pass?
Want to know if your relationship passes the true love test, or if it will be just a passing fling? There are certain questions you need to ask yourself and your answers will tell you in which direction you and your sweetheart are heading. Are you headed to the chapel or are you headed down the road to Splitsville? Psychic Shelby ext. 5697 has the answer!
Short-Term Desires or Lifelong Goals?
Being with someone because you don’t want to be alone or for superficial reasons will not build something lasting. Carefully consider the compromises you are making to be with this person in order to determine if they are the best choice in the long run. While you may care for this guy and enjoy spending time with him, if you don’t have mutual long-term goals, these major differences will slowly but surely degrade the relationship. Relationships are hard and they take a lot of work. If you guys can’t see eye to eye on the big-ticket items, how do you ever expect to find that “happily ever after”? Are you having relationship struggles, our psychics are here to help you.
How Secure do You Feel in the Relationship?
A great relationship and match should instill feelings of security in both people. Whether together or apart, both partners should feel good and solid in the relationship. If you are always guessing about how much your guy loves you, or cannot seem to trust him completely when you two are not together, then the two of you are not secure. This suggests a more short-term relationship since trust and security are necessary for love to thrive.
Compatibility Check
You cannot force compatibility, and rationalizing away major differences will only blow up in your face at a later date. Your partner’s quirks may be adorable now, but you may not feel the same way about them 10 or 20 years down the road. A lasting relationship means being in it for the long haul, and it means you are willing to put up with your partner’s minor foibles because he or she is worth it.
2 thoughts on “Is it Forever or is it a Fling?”
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Thank you for your article. The security in your relationship section really hit home with me. He is so conscientious of our individual space because he feels our individuality is what attracted us to each other and must be kept sacred for the relationship to work. This was refreshing to me because I feel the same way.