Is Your Husband Rethinking Your Marriage?
Do you feel like your relationship has taken a downward turn and that your husband may be looking for the nearest exit? If so, it’s time to take a hard look at how you may have contributed to the state of your relationship. Let’s look at a few choices and behaviors many women make and do in their marriages that push their husbands away and even out of their marriage.
Controlling and Nagging
You may get what you want if you nag your husband enough. And you may keep him from doing things you don’t like if you control his every move, but you can be sure that he will resent you (if he doesn’t already). The best way to make your husband feel suffocated and trapped is to take away his ability to make choices and to comment on everything he says, does, eats, drinks and wears. Keep it up and he’ll be dreaming about the single life!
Pushing Him to Change
True love means accepting and loving your partner as they are. Yet many women try to change the men they’re with. Maybe you pushed your husband to change jobs, go to the gym or dress better. While you may think you’re pushing him to improve himself, you husband may think you’re ashamed of him or that he is not worthy of your love. The truth is, no one changes unless they want to. If he does change because you want him to, he will grow to resent you. He may also leave you for someone who accepts him just the way he is.
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You Stop Caring About Making Him Happy
It’s easy to get comfortable in a relationship, and there is nothing wrong with being comfortable around your husband. But there is such a thing as getting too comfortable. You still need to put an effort into pleasing him, loving him and making him happy. Both of you should continue to work to provide each other with the basics of a loving relationship. Everyone wants to feel needed, attractive and cared for. If you have stopped treating your partner this way, they may seek out someone who will.
He’s Your Scapegoat
Sometimes when life gets rough we lash out at the innocent people closest to us. If you’ve had a bad week at work, don’t take it out on your husband. If he isn’t the direct cause of your stress or disappointment, there’s no reason to treat him like he is. It’s abusive and he’ll only be able to take so much before he is out the door and looking for someone who is kind to him.
Stop lashing out at innocent people. Psychic Michelle ext. 5396 can help you learn to control your anger.
You Don’t Appreciate Him
Appreciate your husband and all that he does for you. You won’t have everything you want, and you may feel like something is missing, but don’t harp on that and make him feel bad about it. When you spend years with someone, it’s easy to take them for granted. Instead, appreciate the benefits he brings to your life. Don’t focus on his faults or your relationship’s problems. Each lack of courtesy, oversight or apathetic response is a little wound. If you make a conscious effort to focus on your husband’s strengths, efforts and accomplishments, you’ll be able to weather any storm together.
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